08/09/2026
Mariana and Stephen got married at a cocktail bar, but they brought their loved ones together well before I arrived.
Exhibit A: their handfasting cord! The bride and her now mother-in-law made it together, weaving the chosen fabrics into the cord we used to tie the knot.
Exhibit B: The Flowers! The night before the wedding, both families got together and built the floral arrangements from botanical LEGO. Yes. LEGO, you read it right! 🤩
But beyond how fun and incredibly them that is, I loved what it represented. So much of this wedding was made with people rather than simply presented to them.
And that spirit continued into the day itself. English and Portuguese were woven throughout so everyone could experience the stories and rituals. Their handfasting was followed by oath stones collected in Bray — including a little one for Phoebe, their furry baby, because of course she is every bit a member of this little family too. 🐾❤️
Phoebe then earned her keep by serving as ring bearer, and they exchanged rings made by the same maker of the Claddagh ring once gifted to Mari by Steve.
Everywhere you looked, there was a little piece of them. Their nerdy sides. Phoebe. And a relationship built as much in long walks and doing the chores together as in the big adventures.
This is what personal ceremonies can look like. Not adding traditions because you’re “supposed to”. Choosing, making and adapting things until every detail has a reason for being there. And these two absolutely understood the assignment. ❤️
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Que honra ter sido a celebrante de vocês! Vida longa pra esse amor tão autêntico e lindo de se ver.
Dream Team:
Venue: Delahunt
Photographer:
Flowers: LEGO