05/10/2025
Day 4
The benefits of creating a ‚SAFE SPACE‘
Hearing so many dreams was heart warming and touching for all of us -
so much, that the teachers gave us the whole lesson instead of 15 minutes that I’ve arranged with them before.
🟠 When we create a SAFE SPACE, we have the courage to open up and share our vulnerable Self + dreams (or feelings, desires, opinions).
Before I’ve opened the sharing round, we agreed as a group to the following:
WE speak + share from the HEART
WE listen from our HEARTS
WE don’t judge (we are respectful wit each other)
We don’t put others down, f.eg. with reactions like: „No, this is not possible…“
We are grateful if someone wants to share the dream (idea) with us, because it is something that is important for them
I went 1st (which is an important step when you lead a group!) + shared my heartfelt dream. I was vulnerable + emotional 1st!
🟠 You can use these AGREEMENTS to create a safe space in your family, with your friends + at work.
And remember to go 1st.
After we did the agreements something astonishing happened:
+ During this lesson not a single child was bored or absent.
+ They shared their dreams and also stories from their hearts + with passion.
+ Our eyes were glowing, our voices strong and touching everyone in the classroom.
+ Not a single student needed to be reminded of the agreements.
+ There were no mean words, rejection, bullying or anything like that.
+ We listened deeply, carefully.
+ It created a deep connection with each other (and also with ourselves).
+ We felt safe, seen, heard, loved and important (ALL CORE NEEDS of a human being were fulfilled).
+ We felt nurtured + more calm and joyful.
And the students didn’t want to stop 🙂
More important things happened in that short period of time. More tomorrow.
Manuela
PS:
Will you try to create a ‚safe space‘ + if yes, when and with whom? Let me know here or send me a DM ✉️
That would be awesome!