30/06/2025
We are not like our mothers—and that’s not rebellion. That’s healing. 💔✨”… Why do some men keep saying, ‘Women of today are not like our mothers’—as if struggling silently was ever a badge of honor?"
"Let’s be honest—not all our mothers were protected. Many were simply trained to endure. To endure cheating, endure abuse, endure silence. Some of them didn’t stay out of love. They stayed because they had no choice. They had no voice."
"Now that this generation of women has a voice, some of you are uncomfortable."
"You want us to be like our mothers… but you’re not even behaving like husbands—by old standards, or biblical ones."
"You want loyalty, but you won’t provide stability. You want submission, but you offer no vision. You want peace, but you keep bringing confusion."
"Please, which version of 'our fathers' are you trying to become? Because some of them abandoned their homes emotionally—even if they stayed physically. Some turned their wives into full-time intercessors just to survive the marriage!"
"Let’s stop pretending. Yes, our mothers were strong—but some were tired, wounded, and used to pain. If we now choose differently, it is not rebellion. It is healing."
"When you say we are not like our mothers, you’re right. Because now—we are choosing peace, we are choosing a purpose, and we are choosing a partnership. Just like you want to be chosen, we also want to be cherished."
"We are not against men—we are simply done with the idea that a woman must suffer to be considered ‘wife material.’ That narrative has expired."
💡 Biblical References
God doesn’t want women to suffer in silence:
"Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her." – Ephesians 5:25
(This kind of love is sacrificial, not selfish.)
Marriage is about mutual respect and partnership:
"Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ." – Ephesians 5:21
(Mutual submission—not one-sided.)
God values peace in the home:
"Better a dry crust with peace and quiet than a house full of feasting, with strife." – Proverbs 17:1
God doesn’t approve of oppression or emotional abuse:
"Do not be harsh with them." – Colossians 3:19
(God sees the pain women endure and calls for love, not harshness.)
“We are not like our mothers—and that’s not rebellion. That’s healing. 💔✨” Kafui