16/10/2025
*A MUST READ FOR EVERYONE*
I had a friend who got a scholarship to study in Canada.
After three years abroad, he came back home looking fresh and full of life.
When I visited him, I joked,
âChai, David! So na like this oyibo food go fat person? You don change finish oh.â
We both laughed.
He smiled and said,
âMy brother, if you see the difference between here and Nigeria ehn, you go cry. Even the school system alone fit make you respect yourself.â
I was curious.
âWhat do you mean?â I asked.
Then he told me something that shocked me.
âIn my school in Canada, the lecturers donât give students zero in exams. Even if you fail, theyâll still find a way to encourage you. The lowest you can get is 40%.â
I was confused.
âWait, you mean even if a student writes rubbish, theyâll still give him 40?â
He nodded.
âYes. So, one day I asked my lecturer the same question. I said, âSir, why not give zero? Isnât that the right punishment for failure?â
The man looked at me and said something that broke me.â
He said,
âYoung man, no human deserves a zero.
How can I give a zero to a student who wakes up early every day to attend lectures?
How can I give a zero to someone who tries, even if he didnât succeed?
How can I give a zero to a mind that is still learning?
Here, we donât grade just answers. We grade effort. Because everyone deserves to feel seen.â
My friend paused for a while, his eyes almost teary.
He said, âHenry, that day I knew the real meaning of humanity. They donât just teach books there, they teach value.â
His story took me back to my childhood.
I remembered how my primary school teacher used to give me zero and then announce it proudly in class.
She would draw big eyes and mouth on my script and tell my classmates to sing âShame, shame, shame!â while she flogged me in front of everyone.
Back then, I thought it was normal.
But now I know many of us didnât fail because we were dull.
We failed because the system made us believe we were nothing.
Sometimes, all a child needs is encouragement, not humiliation.
Zeros destroy confidence.
Mockery kills interest.
Once a student believes heâs useless, he stops trying.
Teachers, parents, lecturers letâs change this system.
Letâs stop tearing children down in the name of discipline.
Letâs start teaching with love, patience, and respect.
We can build a better Nigeria.
We can build a better Africa.
Because every child deserves a chance not shame. đ
âđ˝ My name is Anthony Adeeola Oladejo
I write to educate, inspire, and heal hearts.
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