Society To Halt Women And Children Abuse

Society To Halt Women And Children Abuse SOTHAWACA was established to respond primarily to issues on Women, Youth and Children in areas of Ge

14/08/2026

The Complicated Case of Sibling Sexual Abuse

Sibling sexual abuse is a deeply painful and complicated form of abuse that can remain hidden for years. It may involve coercion, manipulation, threats, exploitation, or inappropriate sexual behaviour between siblings.

The complexity often comes from family loyalty, fear, shame, confusion, and the belief that exposing the abuse will destroy the family. Survivors may struggle to speak because the perpetrator is someone they love or live with.

Silence, however, does not protect children—it protects abuse. Every disclosure deserves to be taken seriously, handled sensitively, and met with safety, support, accountability, and professional intervention.

We must break the culture of silence, educate families, protect vulnerable children, and create safe spaces where survivors can speak without blame or shame. Protect. Believe. Support. Act.

25/07/2026

Every survivor carries an invisible wound. Behind every trembling voice, forced smile, or silent tear is a painful story that words often cannot express. Working with traumatized survivors means standing face to face with broken dreams, shattered trust, and unimaginable pain. It is a reminder that healing is never instant, and scars are not always visible.

Listening to heartbreaking accounts of abuse, violence, trafficking, neglect, or exploitation leaves a lasting mark on those who provide support. There are moments when your heart breaks in silence because no one should ever endure such suffering, especially women and children whose only desire was to live in peace and safety.

Yet, despite the emotional weight, we choose compassion over indifference. We become a safe place where survivors are believed, respected, and empowered to reclaim their dignity. Every small step toward healing becomes a victory worth celebrating.

Working with traumatized survivors also teaches us resilience, patience, and hope. It reminds us that kindness can restore confidence, justice can rebuild trust, and love can help mend lives that violence tried to destroy.

At SOTHAWACA, we remain committed to walking alongside survivors until fear gives way to hope and pain gives way to healing. Together, we can create a world where every survivor is protected, heard, and given the chance to thrive.

23/07/2026

At SOTHAWACA, we refuse to accept the narrative that women do not promote women. Every day, we choose collaboration over competition, encouragement over criticism, and empowerment over exclusion. We believe that when one woman rises, she creates opportunities for many others to succeed.

This is your time to shine. We want to celebrate the incredible work you are doing, no matter how big or small. Tell us about your business, career, advocacy, craft, profession, or passion. Let us amplify your voice, support your journey, and inspire others through your story.

Together, we can build a community where women intentionally uplift women, open doors for one another, and create lasting impact. When women stand together, families, communities, and nations become stronger.

Share what you do in the comments. We are ready to celebrate you because your success is our success.

17/07/2026

On Tuesday, 14th July 2026, SOTHAWACA participated in the Zero Draft Review of the Edo State Child Protection Policy, organised by RoLAC and Anadel Consult in collaboration with the Edo State Ministry of Women Affairs and Social Development at the Ministry's Conference Hall, Benin City.

The review brought together selected government representatives, development partners, and civil society organisations to strengthen the policy framework for protecting children across Edo State through inclusive dialogue and technical collaboration.

Discussions focused on safeguarding standards, child rights, prevention of abuse and exploitation, referral pathways, family strengthening, institutional responsibilities, and effective monitoring mechanisms to ensure a comprehensive and practical Child Protection Policy.

Drawing from our expertise, key stakeholders contributed recommendations on child safeguarding, gender-based violence prevention, family tracing and reintegration, community ownership, and coordinated responses that prioritise the best interests of every child.

SOTHAWACA remains committed to supporting policies that protect children, strengthen safeguarding systems, and promote a safer environment where every child can survive, develop, and thrive.


14/07/2026

It is deeply troubling that, despite the progress we have made, many societies still resist women in positions of leadership. Leadership should be defined by ability, vision, character, and integrity—not by gender. Yet, far too many women continue to face discrimination simply because they choose to lead.

When women are denied leadership opportunities, communities lose valuable perspectives, innovation, and inclusive decision-making. Breaking these barriers benefits everyone, not just women.

At SOTHAWACA, we stand firmly for a world where women are empowered to lead without fear, prejudice, or discrimination. Equal leadership opportunities are essential for building stronger families, thriving communities, and a more just society.

Together, let us challenge harmful stereotypes, support women leaders, and inspire every girl to believe that her voice matters, her dreams are achievable, and her leadership can transform the world.


The rescue of our abducted children and their teachers is a victory that fills our hearts with relief, gratitude, and re...
11/07/2026

The rescue of our abducted children and their teachers is a victory that fills our hearts with relief, gratitude, and renewed hope. We celebrate their safe return and commend everyone whose efforts made this possible.

Yet, bringing them home is only the first step. The painful memories, fear, anxiety, and emotional trauma they have endured cannot be ignored. While the world celebrates their freedom, we must also recognize that the journey to healing has only just begun.

Comprehensive trauma management, professional counseling, medical care, and long-term psychosocial support must be treated as an urgent national priority. Healing the mind is just as important as protecting the body. No child or teacher should be left to struggle with invisible wounds alone.

Parents, schools, mental health professionals, government agencies, and the entire community must work together to create a safe, loving, and supportive environment where every survivor can recover, rebuild confidence, and embrace the future with hope.

Let us celebrate their rescue, but let us also remain committed to their healing. Every survivor deserves more than freedom—they deserve the opportunity to live, learn, and thrive again without the burden of unaddressed trauma.


11/07/2026

Why Our Motto: Healing, Determination and Survival

Every journey begins with healing. Healing gives us the strength to recover from pain, restore hope, and believe that tomorrow can be better than yesterday.

Determination keeps us moving when life becomes difficult. It is the courage to rise after every fall, remain focused, and never give up on ourselves or those we serve.

Survival is more than enduring hardship—it is overcoming adversity with resilience, dignity, and purpose. Every survivor's story is a reminder that hope is stronger than fear.

At SOTHAWACA, our motto, Healing, Determination and Survival, reflects our unwavering commitment to supporting women, children, survivors, and vulnerable communities. Together, we heal, we persevere, and we build brighter futures.


05/06/2026

As an Advocate for Child Rights and a Child Protector, I recently engaged community members in Okpokhumi-Emai, Owan East Local Government Area of Edo State on the growing threat of sexual exploitation of children in the digital age. While technology has opened doors to learning, communication, and innovation, it has also created opportunities for predators to target children through social media platforms, online games, messaging apps, and other digital spaces.

Many children are unaware of the dangers that exist online. They may unknowingly share personal information, photographs, videos, or engage with strangers who disguise their harmful intentions. Online grooming, sextortion, cyberbullying, and the circulation of child sexual abuse materials are serious violations of children's rights and can have devastating emotional, psychological, and social consequences.

Parents, caregivers, teachers, religious leaders, and community stakeholders must play active roles in protecting children. Open communication, digital literacy, parental supervision, and regular discussions about online safety are essential. Children should be encouraged to report any suspicious online interaction without fear of blame or punishment.

The protection of children is a collective responsibility. Communities must work together to create safe environments where children are empowered with knowledge and supported by adults who prioritize their wellbeing. Relevant authorities should also strengthen efforts to investigate and prosecute offenders who exploit children through digital platforms.

Every child deserves to grow up free from abuse, exploitation, and fear. Let us remain vigilant, informed, and committed to safeguarding our children both offline and online. Their safety today determines the strength and security of our future society.

28/05/2026

SOTHAWACA calls on the Nigerian government to urgently protect Nigerian children and schools from the rising insecurity and violence that continues to endanger learning environments across the nation. Our children deserve safety, dignity, and peace in every classroom.

Just yesterday, we celebrated Children’s Day 2026 with joy, songs, and hopeful messages for a brighter future. Yet the painful reality remains that so many innocent children, along with their teachers, are still being held by bandits, their families trapped in unbearable anguish and uncertainty.

This heartbreaking contradiction exposes a national emergency that can no longer be ignored. How do we celebrate childhood on one hand while on the other hand, families are plunged into fear, waiting for news that should never come in a civilized society?

SOTHAWACA strongly urges the government to move beyond condolences and promises to immediate, coordinated, and intelligence-driven action that secures schools, rescues the abducted, and restores confidence in our education system. Every delay deepens the pain.

Nigeria must choose action over silence. Our children are not bargaining chips; they are the nation’s future. We must protect them fiercely, urgently, and consistently. Anything less is a failure we cannot afford to accept any longer now.

27/05/2026

Emotional abuse leaves wounds that are often invisible to the eyes but deeply painful to the heart. Harsh words, manipulation, constant criticism, humiliation, silence, and control can slowly destroy a person’s confidence and sense of worth. Many victims smile outside while silently battling fear, anxiety, confusion, and emotional exhaustion within. No one deserves to be made to feel small, unloved, or emotionally trapped in any relationship.

The journey toward emotional healing is not easy, but it is possible. Healing begins the moment you recognize your pain and choose yourself again. It starts with setting boundaries, speaking up, seeking support, and understanding that your feelings are valid. You are not weak for walking away from emotional harm; you are courageous for choosing peace over pain.

Every step toward healing matters. Some days may feel heavy, but growth often comes quietly through self-love, forgiveness, rest, and rediscovering your voice. Emotional healing takes time, patience, and compassion toward yourself.

You deserve relationships filled with respect, kindness, safety, and genuine love. Never stop believing that healing is possible and that brighter, healthier days are ahead.


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