22/01/2026
STUDY THE BOOK OF PHILEMON ( NEW TESTAMENT) @ ABE ODUNAYO.
INTRODUCTORY REMARKS (VS 1-3)
1 . Paul, a prisoner of Jesus Christ and Timothy our brother, To Philemon our dear brother and fellow worker,
2 . And to our dear Apphia and Archippus, our fellow soldier, and to the church in your house
3 . Grace and peace to you from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.
PRAYER AND THANKSGIVING FOR PHILEMON (VS 4-6)
4 . I thank my God, always mentioning you in my prayers,
5 . For I hear of your love and faith which you have for the Lord Jesus and for all saints,
6 . That the sharing of your faith may become effective by knowing every good thing that is in you in Christ Jesus.
PHILEMON'S LOVING BEHAVIOR WAS AN ENCOURAGEMENT TO PAUL (VS 7)
7 . For we have great joy and encouragement in your love because the hearts of the saints are refreshed by you, brother.
PAUL'S REQUEST CONCERNING ONESIMUS (VS 8-21)
8 . Therefore, though I could be very bold in Christ to order you to do what is fitting,
9 . Yet instead, for love’s sake, I appeal to you as Paul an old man and now also a prisoner of Jesus Christ.
*(1:8-9 As a servant of Christ Paul could have set before Philemon his duty as a believer, and the commands of Scripture. But Philemon had already shown that he had love in his heart (v 7), and so Paul appeals to him on that basis.⚜)
10 . I appeal to you on behalf of my son Onesimus; in my chains I have become his father.
11 . In time past he was not profitable to you, but now is profitable to you and to me.
*(1:10-11 The name Onesimus means “useful”. He was a slave of Philemon (v 16) who had run away and become useless to him. But having become a child of God he became useful in a far higher sense.⚜)
12 . I have sent him back to you. Therefore receive him, that is, my own heart.
13 . I wanted to keep him with me, so that in your place he could be of service to me in the bonds of the gospel,
14 . But without knowing your mind I would do nothing, so that your good deed would not be like something forced, but voluntary.
*(1:13-14 Paul was sure that Philemon would have gladly been a help to him if he had been where Paul was. But he would not try to use another man’s servant without consent. If a favor is forced and not free, it is no favor at all. This is true also of any gift we make to God or to His people – 2 Cor 9:7.⚜)
15 . For perhaps he left you for a time that you might receive him for ever,
16 . Not now as a slave📖, but more than a slave, a dear brother, especially to me, but how much more to you, both in the body and in the Lord?
17 . So if you count me a partner, receive him as myself.
18 . If he has wronged you, or owes you anything, put that to my account.
19 . I Paul have written this with my own hand, I will pay it back; but I do not need to tell you that you owe me even your very self.
*(1:17-19 Paul had learned this from Christ. He knew that God accepts believers as He does His own Son – Acts 15:8; Rom 5:2; 14:3; Eph 2:18. He knew that we must accept one another as Christ accepts us – Rom 15:7. He knew that accepting someone a person sends is the same as accepting the person who sent him – John 13:20. He knew that all the wrongs, sins, and spiritual debts of believers have been put to Christ’s account and that Christ paid them in full – Isa 53:5-6; Rom 8:33-34; 2 Cor 5:19-21. Paul had learned what love is and what these divine principles mean, and was happy to put them into practice. So must we be. We should be happy to pay the debts of other believers as Christ has paid our debts, and to accept other believers who have offended us as God has accepted us who have offended Him.⚜)
20 . Yes, brother, let me rejoice in the Lord because of you. Refresh my heart in the Lord.
*(1:20 This benefit was not for himself but for one who was dear to him.⚜)
21 . I have confidence in your obedience and so write to you, knowing that you will do even more than I say.
PAUL'S REQUEST CONCERNING HIMSELF (VS 22)
22 . Moreover, prepare a place for me to stay, for I trust that through your prayers I shall be granted to you.
*(1:22 Because of the prayers of Philemon (and others) Paul expected to be released from prison. Compare Acts 12:5-11.⚜)
CLOSING REMARKS (VS 23-25)
23 . Epaphras, my fellow prisoner in Christ Jesus, greets you,
24 . As do Marcus, Aristarchus, Demas, Lucas, my fellow workers.
25 . The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit. (Amen).
LESSONS TO LEARN
Here are some key lessons to take away:
1. The Power of Forgiveness:
Paul emphasizes the importance of forgiving those who have wronged us, exemplifying Christ's attitude towards forgiveness.
2. Restoration and Reconciliation:
The letter highlights the significance of restoring relationships that have been strained or broken, encouraging believers to seek reconciliation.
3. Value of Every Individual:
Paul urges Philemon to view Onesimus not just as a slave, but as a beloved brother in Christ, emphasizing the inherent worth of every person.
4. Emphasizing Christian Brotherhood:
The concept of spiritual kinship transcends social status, urging believers to act as family members, regardless of societal norms.
5. Intercession and Advocacy:
Paul acts as an intercessor for Onesimus, teaching the importance of standing up for those in need and advocating for justice.
6. Living Out the Gospel:
The letter serves as a reminder to live out the Christian message in everyday life, showing how faith affects relationships and societal structures.
7. Responsibility and Ownership:
The call to take responsibility for one's actions is prominent, as Philemon is encouraged to make choices that reflect his faith.
8. Transformational Relationships:
The relationship between Paul, Philemon, and Onesimus illustrates how the Gospel transforms not just individual lives but also the dynamics of relationships.
These lessons from Philemon offer timeless insights into Christian living and the importance of love and grace in interpersonal relationships.
CONCLUSION
The Book of Philemon is a brief yet profound letter in the New Testament, focusing on themes of forgiveness, reconciliation, and the transformative power of the Gospel.
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