22/02/2026
If you’ve watched a council meeting, you might have noticed I try to sit in a different seat each time.
I started doing that when I was first elected. It’s not about position. It’s intentional. I learned sitting next to a different councillor means different conversations before the meeting, different insights in the pauses, and a closer look at how each person approaches governance.
You see the human behind the vote. The preparation, the care, and how they carry the weight of responsibility. You’re reminded that everyone has something they can teach you.
This week I sat next to Councillor Boyle. She’s warm, adores her kids and grandkids, she’s experienced, always prepared with handwritten notes, thoughtful in her contributions, and always open to listening, even changing her mind when persuaded by good argument.
In that same meeting, we disagreed, on a big issue.
But she was no less warm. She listened just as carefully. We acknowledged where we differ, and moved forward with a growing fondness.
That’s the lesson I keep learning about governance.
It isn’t about winning, or personalities. And it certainly isn’t easy.
It’s about doing the mahi. Leaving personal ego at the door. Following sound process. Listening deeply. Seeking answers. Testing your own thinking. And making the best decision you can with the information in front of you.
I respect my fellow councillors, like Trish, who show up each week committed to our community’s future, even when the conversations and decisions are tough.
I’m learning that democracy is intentional. It requires maturity. And it works best when we remember both the human’s we serve, and the one beside us.