12/06/2025
A message from my heart. β€οΈ
Today, a very close friend of mine asked me to be one of the Ninangβs of her very precious little one, AND I SAID NO. Yes, I declined.
Hear me out!
A year ago, I have decided to no longer accept this very serious and sacred role. As I've grown older, I've come to realize that being a godparent is more than just a title or a gesture of goodwill. It's a sacred responsibility, a promise to provide spiritual guidance, emotional support, and a loving presence in a child's life.
Unfortunately, I've noticed that I have been taking for granted my role as a godparent in many cases. Iβve often viewed it as mere formality, a way to honor a friend or family member without much expectation of actual involvement.
But being a godparent is not just about attending baptisms, birthdays, or special occasions. It's about being a constant presence, a source of wisdom, and a safe haven for a child to grow and thrive.
With 15 precious little ones already in my life, I've come to realize that I can no longer take on new godchildren without compromising the quality of relationships I have with those already dear to me. My heart is big, but my capacity to give the attention and love each child deserves is limited.
From now on, I'll be focusing on nurturing the relationships I have with my existing godchildren, being present for their milestones, and providing the love and support they need. (I still have to work on this one)
IβLL NO LONGER BE ACCEPTING NEW REQUESTS TO BE A GODPARENT.
To those who have asked me and will be asking me in the future to be a godparent, I appreciate the trust and honor you've placed in me. I hope you understand my decision and know that it's not a reflection of our relationship, but rather a commitment to the children who already hold a special place in my heart.
After a very careful consideration, I've decided to step back from taking on that role for new friends and family. With my 15 little ones, I want to ensure I can give each of them the love, support, and presence they deserve. I'm focusing on nurturing these relationships and being the best godparent I can be to those who are already in my life.
Thank you for understanding!
May we all continue to support all the children in the world no matter what role we play in their lives.
May the good energy be always present around all of you. πΈβ¨β€οΈ
With much love, Al Ria. π
