Lovey's Blog

19/02/2026

I took the long way around.
Down the wrong roads.
Into the wrong arms.
Chasing love that was never going to stay, no matter how much i wanted it to.
I poured myself into people who only knew how to take from me and leave.
I bent and I compromised.
I tried to be softer, easier, smaller...hoping that if I loved hard enough, it would finally be enough.
It wasn’t.
I was ignored.
Dismissed.
Treated like I was optional.
And there’s a particular kind of darkness that settles in when you start believing that’s all you deserve.
You stop expecting good things.
You brace for disappointment.
You call heartbreak “just my luck.”
I’ve held the shattered pieces of my own heart more times than I care to admit. I’ve sat on the floor, tears falling, asking the same question over and over...
Why not me?
Why does love seem to work for everyone else?
And yet, every time I swore I was done, I’d open my heart again… only to find myself standing on the same broken road.
But here’s what I finally understand.
I wasn’t unlucky.
I was settling.
Settling for crumbs instead of waiting for the right one.
Settling for potential.
Settling for being treated like I was replaceable.
And I’m not.
I couldn’t keep living on edge..waiting for the next betrayal, the next letdown, the next fire to burn through what little hope I had left.
So I stopped.
I stopped blaming fate.
I stopped calling pain normal.
I stopped accepting less than I should.
I’ve been broken. I’ve been lost. I’ve been so deep in the dark that I forgot what light felt like.
But I don’t stay down.
Not anymore.
I am more than good enough.
I am worth choosing.
And most importantly, I choose myself now.
Some people won’t come with me as I grow.
That’s okay. If they can’t be good with who I’m becoming, they were never meant to stay.
I’m not handing my heart to anyone who hasn't the earned the privilege of having it. In fact, I’m done chasing love altogether.
Love will find me when I’m ready, not when I’m searching for someone to fix what I should be healing myself.
Somewhere along the way, I lost pieces of who I was.
Now I’m reclaiming them.
It’s time to evolve and grow.
Time to breathe in the person I should be.
Time to rediscover the woman I buried under heartbreak.
Yes, my story has scars.
Bad decisions.
Hard lessons.
But it also has resilience.
Strength and clarity.
A comeback strong enough to shake the ground beneath me.
That’s enough for now.
I’ll figure out the rest the way I always do...step by step, fire in my chest, head held high.
Because every day, in every way,
I got this.
|ravenwolf

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14/02/2026

I’ll never tell you that I don’t get down on myself and feel lost,
Because it happens all the time.
Everyone praises me for my strength and admires my resilience…
Because those don’t see those other times and feel my struggle sometimes.
I’m not telling you that I’m not strong, because I am
I’ve had to be.
My life didn’t give me any other choices.
But when you get beaten down enough times, you make a choice:
Become a victim or become a victor.
I chose to keep getting up, keep showing up and keep fighting.
That doesn’t mean I don’t have bad days or that I always win.
Far from it.
What it does mean is that I shifted my perspective.
I stopped asking “why me?”
I started asking “why not me?”
I let go of the failures but learned from them.
I started approaching every obstacle with a different mindset.
I know now that I will either overcome or adapt, that there are no dead ends unless I choose to see them that way.
People will disappoint me, things will hurt me, life will crush me if I let it…
But I choose to let none of those define me reduce me or destroy me.
I’m more than simply strong, complex or resilient.
I’m determined…
To always find a way.
To always rise above.
To seek joy midst the storms.
Most of all, to celebrate my strengths and improve my weaknesses.
Maybe I only make a small step forward today, but if I keep taking those small steps…
Eventually l’ll find myself where I want to be-
Or at least a lot closer.
This is my life and my choice.
I choose happiness.
One moment, one victory, one dream at a time.
|ravenwolf

21/01/2026

I pray to God to be there with me during the storm. I hope my family will not judge nor leave me during the storm...I hope and pray to our Lord Jesus through the intercession of mother Mary and all the saints so help me God. Amen 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏

21/01/2026

Yeah, I’ve been through hard times and had my fair share of bad experiences.
There were times when I just wanted to give up.
I still have days when I cry briefly in the shower, when I burst into tears momentarily and I feel like screaming at the top of my lungs..
But I always manage to pull it together and slap a smile on my face.
Doesn’t mean it’s always easy or that I’m always happy when I’m smiling.
I am just strong enough to show the world what I want it to see, no matter how my day is going.
I’m not defined by the bad stuff in my past, my hard days or the failures I’ve overcome.
That’s the fuel for my fire that fills my heart and drives me to get better, grow stronger every day.
Maybe I don’t always get it right.
Perhaps I’m a complete mess some days with wild hair and something in every hand..
But that’s just me.
I’m happy with who I am and who I’m working hard to become.
I’ll never be perfect and I don’t want to be.
I will take being real and authentic over fake perfection and following the crowd every day..
So, I’m going to keep stepping out into my own light, living my life with passionate purpose and staying true to who I am.
All that stuff in my past that tried to destroy me?
That’s over and done with.
It doesn’t define, limit or hold me back any more.
I’ve let go of it…a little more as time goes on.
So, when you see me now, know that everything that I am, everything that I choose to be and everything that I will become is exactly as I want.
Take it or leave it, this is me.
And I like who I am.
It’s up to you to decide if I’m your flavor or not.
Either way, I’ll still keep shining like I do.
|ravenwolf

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21/01/2026

Don’t underestimate me. I see more than I say, I hear more than you know and i notice moe than you realize. I watch, I listen and I kind of assess the situation first. Silence is not ignorance; it is control. I don’t show all my cards, or move in a predictable pattern. They may speak freely where others cannot; I think deeply where others do not. Underestimating me is a mi I was always good at being mindful, patience and knowing when to talk – and when not too.
Neena Gupta.
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21/01/2026

Sometimes... I need to go off on my own. I'm not sad. I'm not angry. I'm recharging my batteries. Kristen Butler 🌈💖

15/01/2026

A strong woman may turn her head when they talk behind her back, but that doesn’t mean she doesn’t hear and understand. She can hear the whispers, see the looks and read between the lines. She's silent by choice, not by design. She refuses to waste energy on nonsense and bu****it. Instead, she centers on her evolution, her ambitions and her calm. While others keep busy talking, she keeps busy building. That she rises above the nonsense says a lot about her strength, or so I think. She’s got far more valuable s**t to do than explain herself to folks who don’t matter.
Neena Gupta.
ⓒ Love Is An Emotion of Strong Affection

11/01/2026

11/01/2026

All my life I’ve been told who I should be,
what I should wear or what I should look like.
I tried to do what I was told, but it just didn’t take.
I was never happy fitting into their labels and boxes, so I stopped trying.
I realized that I’m unique, and I want more than to do what everyone else is doing.
I can’t and don’t do anything small or halfway.
I’m not afraid to put myself out there and take risks.
Sure, I’ve been hurt more than my fair share, but I don’t stop trying to love and be loved.
It’s a risk I’m willing to take, because the reward - love - is worth the price ... any price.
I know many would never agree with that, but it’s my choice, and I’ll take the chance without hesitation.
I’ve spent many sleepless nights crying myself to sleep or tossing and turning in bed, unable to sleep because my mind wouldn’t stop..
But that’s just part of it, and I accept that.
I refuse to stop living and stop loving because I’ve had my heart broken.
I learned from my mistakes and I built higher walls around my heart, but I still give too much of myself..that’s just who I am.
I live every day to the fullest, and I love with all my heart ...
And I don’t plan on changing.
It’s who I am- I can’t love anything or anyone halfway.
So, if you think you’re going to come into my life with some lackluster passion or part time friendship, think again..
I expect what I give and I give it all.
I’m always there for my people and I always will be.
I wear my heart on my sleeve and I speak my mind..that’s just who I am.
When it comes to romance, I don’t need grandiose promises or fancy dreams.
I yearn for real, authentic and genuine love- deep feeling, soul touching, heart stimulating and visceral emotional connection.
Anything less isn’t enough for me.
I’m sure the world will shake its head in disapproval at the way I live and love, and they’re welcome to pass judgment on me.
It doesn’t mean I’ll care or listen.
They don’t know where I’ve been and don’t know my reasons, so they don’t have the right to think they know me..because they don’t.
So, I’m going to keep charging hard into every day with everything I have, no matter how hard the challenges may be.
I was born to become more and that’s just what I’m doing.
Big heart, big hopes, big dreams..
And it all starts with me.
I’ll keep taking the chances for amazing love and wonderful friendships, because just like I always do,
I’m going to keep loving hard and living with all my heart.
It’s now or never,
So I’m choosing now.
|ravenwolf

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11/01/2026

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