Life Abundantly Coaching

19/02/2020

Took the Queen to see Disney on ice, she wore that crown through bathtime.🤷🏿‍♀️😂

Anyway, I was told recently (Sat) by one of my favorite Aggies that I make parenting look easy. Raising a two year old is no walk in the park but I'm also serving pre-teens and teens who are asking about/having s*x, thinking about college, trying to find themselves, etc. so going back and forth with Q about what to eat, wearing sandals in Feb, and potty time seem completely reasonable comparatively. So while easy certainly isn't the word I would use to describe this journey there are a few things that make it a bit more practicable.
1. Make sure your cup is full, always. Challenging at times but commit.
2. Rely on the village.
3. Make incremental changes and key decisions one at a time. I'm a Project Manager / SAFe Agilist so this works well for me naturally. Umm look for me in the PMBOK Guide, Appendix X2, Fifth Edition under key contributors. (🤓Nerdy Flex lol)

How do I do it all? I don't. I do what matters most.

14/06/2019

Balance is dumb. My goal is to be a good steward of all that God has given me and the rest of the stuf can fall on the floor. We have all the time we need to do the things we're actually called to do!

24/04/2019

Grateful. http://www.mindaharts.com/secure-the-seat/2019/4/23/planning-with-purpose-with-sharnikya-howard

19/03/2019

The last few weeks have been full...not in an overwhelming way but in a way that makes me feel good about being exactly where God needs me and grateful for these opportunities to bloom where I've been planted.

I've been able to serve women over the past few weeks who are navigating difficult times of transition. Some are waiting on a miracle and if you're in the same boat, here's a reminder that every day you wake up is a miracle so while you wait on "that miracle" don't discount the miracles being shared daily.

Others are feeling abandoned and lost, like God is silent and forgotten them as they seek direction, purpose, and opportunities to use their gifts. Here's a reminder that your gift is cultivated through practice, your calling is cultivated through prayer.

And a few are discouraged by broken relationships and wondering how to begin the journey of repair. Here's a reminder that "meeting people where they are" isn't as helpful as "meeting them with grace".

01/03/2019

Kicking off with a reminder to "Be a Barnabas, pursue a Paul, and train a Timothy." Encourage others, receive guidance from a mentor, and support/guide others" Thank you Stephanie for being my "Paul".

28/02/2019

https://wjla.com/features/good-morning-washington/fashion-for-nursing-moms-on-the-go
..because I showed up on my first day back to the office in a cute pullover dress number. Yep, it was cute but not functional so I quickly learned what worked best for me. Thank you for allowing me to share.
It's not about which method of feeding is "best"(let's not use this as yet another way to divide us) what's most important is that mama and baby are both well. So whether you nurse or provide formula, it's about doing what's best for your family. Thank you to the mama models and the glam squad! .by.zochelle
Segment link in bio :)

From middle-of-the-night feedings, surprise leaks, to constant pumping –- fashion is the last thing on new moms’ minds while breastfeeding. But several new styles offer easy access while feeding or pumping on the go. Career coach Sharnikya Howard shared what to wear to make your transiti...

18/02/2019

You can spend all your time agonizing about the life you thought you'd lead...the one that probably won't fulfill you but sounds good to others when you share, yeah that one... or you can enjoy the blessings in each and every moment and take opportunities to invest in yourself so that you lead the life of significance God is calling you to...

Oh and "when you get what you want, what will you have? When you get where you're going, where will you be? And when all is said and done, was it worth Christ dying for?"

28/12/2018

Stopped by this morning to share a few tips for new moms on how to prepare for maternity leave!

14/12/2018

Blessings. Thankful.

14/12/2018

Grateful. The annual Show Some Love event would not be possible without the help of the best volunteers and sponsors! DTLR Share The Gift Of A HairCut Elevate All the Time, LLC - EAT Hair Academy Yum Couture Dc .thechef FOURK'd Catering

01/12/2018

Things that make me smile: Grace, Gratitude, and God's perfect timing. I met .lavhan very briefly at last year's and a few months ago she invited me to share my heart regarding life as a single mom on .The "Rosie Side of Single Mom Life" (which is every-single-side) is available in her latest season. Thank you so much for having me!

18/11/2018

Ain't it funny how God will remind you of what He said, like "I said what I said."

Last week I attended the event. First pic is me thinking I'm cute in my event fit. Not pictured is Q off to the right like "whatever lil ugly, lift that bra up, I'm hungry". Anyway, the event was dope and I left inspired by the women, both single and married who shared some of their journeys of love and fortitude. My heart smiled particulatly as some of the ladies talked about the blessings of their vows.

Last night I got to celebrate with my good friend . It's been such a joy and inspiration to watch this journey unfold. I remember the naysayers who thought you were crazy for leaving your "good government job". God had plans. You were in the KW top 10 in 2015, God flexed in 2016 and flexed some more in 2017 lol, and you were recognized by Washingtonian this year! The best part is the way you're pouring into others so effortlessly (likely because you are full, can't pour from an empty glass chile). Congrats to The Greene Group!

Oh right? So what was the reminder? Here it is: When God blesses your neighbor, it means He's in the neighborhood.