05/23/2026
SAFETY SUNDAY (24th May 2026)
THE EMPTY CHAIR
Memorial Day weekend is here.
And I know what that means for a lot of people.
Cookouts.
Campgrounds.
Boats.
Cold drinks.
Flags in the yard.
A little extra time with family.
A chance to breathe before the grind starts again.
And I’m not here to take that from anybody.
Enjoy it.
Fire up the grill.
Hold your kids.
Sit with your wife.
Call your people.
Laugh a little.
Rest a little.
Live a little.
Because there are men and women who don’t get to do that anymore.
That’s the part we better not forget.
Memorial Day is not Veterans Day.
It is not just another patriotic holiday.
It is not just a three-day weekend wrapped in red, white, and blue.
Memorial Day is about the ones who didn’t come home.
The ones who left a chair empty.
At the dinner table.
At the reunion.
Beside a wife.
Across from a child.
In the middle of a family that still looks over sometimes, like they’re supposed to be there.
That’s the weight of this weekend.
The empty chair.
And if you’ve lived any kind of life…
If you’ve worked any kind of dangerous job…
If you’ve stood in a Union hall after a bad phone call…
If you’ve ever seen a hard hat sitting on a table where a man should’ve been standing…
Then you understand that chair.
You understand what it means when somebody doesn’t make it home.
Now let me be crystal clear.
I’m not comparing linework to military service.
Far too many people do that already.
I’m not putting our trade beside combat.
I’m not making Memorial Day about us.
Memorial Day belongs to the fallen men and women who gave their lives in service to this country.
Period.
We honor that.
We respect that.
We say their names.
We remember the cost.
But if that remembrance doesn’t sharpen how we live…
If it doesn’t make us hold our people tighter…
If it doesn’t make us give a damn about the man standing beside us…
If it doesn’t make us more disciplined with the life we’ve still been given…
Then what are we really doing?
Because memory without action is just a ceremony.
And I’m tired of ceremonies that don’t change behavior.
I’m tired of hard hats off, and heads bowed…
Then right back to rushing.
Right back to assuming.
Right back to half-assed job briefs.
Right back to silence when somebody knows damn well something doesn’t feel right.
That’s not honor.
That’s performance.
And the dead deserve better than our performance.
So do the living.
This weekend is about the fallen.
But Tuesday morning is about the ones still standing.
The ones still climbing.
The ones still leading crews.
The ones still trusting another man to watch what they can’t see.
The ones still walking back into the arena with wives waiting…
Kids waiting…
Mothers waiting…
Fathers waiting…
Dogs waiting by the damn door.
Lives waiting.
That’s what safety is supposed to be about.
Not slogans.
Not posters.
Not polished speeches from somebody who hasn’t had mud on their boots since Clinton was in office.
Stewardship.
That’s the word.
Safety is stewardship.
It’s looking at the man beside you and understanding his life is not yours to gamble with.
It’s knowing your silence can become somebody else’s funeral.
Your hurry can become somebody else’s empty chair.
Your assumption can become a phone call a family never recovers from.
And I know that sounds heavy.
Good.
It should.
This work is heavy.
The cost is heavy.
The names are heavy.
The ghosts are heavy.
And some of us carry more of them than we ever talk about.
Some of us can still remember exactly where we were when we found out.
Some of us still drive past a place and feel something in our chest tighten up because a memory lives there.
Some of us hear a name and go quiet.
We carry names in this trade.
Don’t act like we don’t.
Some are military names.
Some are family names.
Some are Brotherhood names.
Some are trade names.
Some are names from crews we worked with.
Some are names passed down by old hands who got real quiet when they told the story.
Some are names that never made a headline, but damn sure left a hole.
And this weekend…
Maybe we ought to let those names talk to us.
Not with guilt.
With responsibility.
Maybe we ought to let them remind us that going home is not automatic.
It’s not guaranteed.
It’s not owed.
It’s protected…
By how we lead.
By how we listen.
By how we speak up.
By how we slow down when slowing down matters.
By how we refuse to let a Brother walk into something just because stopping him might be uncomfortable.
That’s where honor becomes behavior.
That’s where remembrance becomes responsibility.
That’s where Memorial Day reaches past the weekend and actually changes the way a man walks back into the arena.
Because the real work is before the incident.
Before the flash.
Before the fall.
Before the contact.
Before the phone call.
Before the wife answers.
Before the kid sees people pull into the driveway, and somehow knows life just changed.
Before the chair becomes empty.
That’s where leadership lives.
Not in the speech afterward.
In the decision before.
So this Memorial Day weekend…
Say the names.
Honor the fallen.
Stand still for a moment and actually feel the cost.
Not the political noise.
Not the social media performance.
The cost.
The human cost.
The empty chair.
Then take that weight with you when you go back to work.
Let it make you sharper.
Let it make you more present.
Let it make you more honest.
Let it make you more accountable.
Let it make you unwilling to trade a life for a schedule.
Because there are already enough empty chairs in this world.
There are already enough names carved into stone.
There are already enough families trying to build a life around a hole that never really closes.
There are already enough crews carrying men they couldn’t bring back.
This weekend belongs to the fallen.
But Tuesday belongs to the living.
And when we step back into the work…
We owe it to both.
We owe it to the ones who gave everything.
And we owe it to the ones still waiting on us to come home.
So enjoy your weekend.
Love your people.
Say the names.
Remember the cost.
Then come back right.
Come back locked in.
Come back humble.
Come back unwilling to tolerate the kind of bu****it that gets good people hurt.
Because the best way to honor those who didn’t make it home…
Is to fight like hell for the ones who still can.
The Truth Lives Here…
Better… NEVER RESTS
~Kevin | Lineman Bull$hit™ Academy