12/19/2025
Wednesday was an amazing night. The folks from The Bailey Center for Special Needs - Going Beyond Boundaries were here, and I think they really enjoyed themselves. It was great to see so many smiling faces. Hopefully we can do it again next year. Thank you Jessica for the gift bag. The sweatshirts and stop sign are perfect.
Later on, while at the hot chocolate station, I was summoned to go meet someone. As I came around the corner, I saw a lady standing there, and somehow I knew exactly who she was. You see, Debbie Miller was coming here, on her deceased father's birthday, to start a new tradition and help with the healing. She smiled, introduced herself, and I gave her a big hug. I could tell the healing had begun. And I look forward to seeing she and her son next year.
Shortly after 9, I was summoned again to go meet someone. This time I had no idea who it was. But, she introduced herself, Danielle Rodriguez, and thanked me for bringing back the joy. And then she asked if she could give me a hug. Obviously, I obliged. Just like with Debbie, I could feel how much this night at Freeman Lights meant to her.
It's not the first time this has happened to me, but it was the first with 2 in one night. I've had people cry on my shoulder plenty of times. Depression is a terrible thing to deal with. Believe me, I've had my moments too when I felt all alone in the world. And I suspect it's just horrible when the depression involves a loved one. But there's something about this property and Freeman Lights that is able to turn around the lives of so many people. It is truly a special place. So thank you Debbie and Danielle for making this such a memorable night for me.
Finally, a little personal note. If you've seen me the past couple of weeks, I looked a little different. I had decided that I would let my beard grow out, and maybe next year I could be Santa Claus some times. But, after Wednesday night, and so many other encounters, I realize that I don't need to grow a long white beard to be Santa. All I have to do....is be myself. 🙏🎅
Bobby