05/02/2025
Words of Wisdom here...
Consider making this Summer break a permanent break for your family from public school.
Let’s address some questions that may be preventing you from making the switch. 👇🏻
1. Will My Homeschooled Kids Miss Out?
Let’s set the record straight. What exactly will they be missing?
- Bullying? No thanks.
- Sitting at a desk for 8 hours? Not necessary.
- Peer pressure? We’ll pass.
- A naturalistic/evolutionary worldview taught in all subjects?
We’ll take a Biblical worldview.
- Time away from their siblings? They’re closer than ever.
- Rushed mornings? Not in our house.
- A one-size-fits-all education? We customize learning.
- State-mandated testing? We do not measure success or intelligence by government mandated testing.
While there are some perks in the public school system, the advantages of homeschooling far surpass them.
2. Can You Really Homeschool More Than One Child?
Absolutely! Once your child can read, independent learning becomes game-changing. Homeschool curriculums are specifically designed for families with multiple children, allowing you to tailor your schedule and focus on the subjects where your kids need a bit more guidance.
Learning thrives in a family environment. Older children can and should be taught to learn independently, equipping them with crucial life skills. Remember, as the parent, you hold the reins when it comes to curriculum choices.
3. Will My Kid Be Weird?
Let’s flip that question. Isn’t it strange for kids to be around the same age group for 8 hours a day, only cultivating a socialization skill for their particular age group? Doesn't this concern anyone that they'll never grow into maturity?
Homeschooled kids engage with various age groups and generations. Adults consistently remark, “Your children look me in the eye and have real conversations with me!” And why wouldn’t they? This has always been an integral part of their upbringing.
Being socialized with younger siblings, communicating with grandparents, or chatting with store clerks fosters invaluable people skills. Are homeschooled kids really “weird” for being adept at conversing with adults? Or are they simply exceptionally well-socialized?
4. We can't homeschool because I have to work.
I understand your situation, especially if you're a single mother. However, I encourage you to think creatively; homeschooling your children might be challenging, but it's not impossible! Consider picking up my friend Nicki Truesdell's book, "Anyone Can Homeschool," for some inspiration.
Now, I might offend some people with this next point, but for married parents: can you truly not afford to homeschool? Have you considered whether there are expenses you could reduce to make this possible? Perhaps you could downsize your house, implement a stricter budget, choose a more affordable car, or take fewer vacations. I promise that whatever sacrifices you make to stay home with your children will be worth it!
5. Am I unqualified to teach my children? I don't have a degree, and my friend or my distant relative makes their worries known about this.
Homeschooling can be challenging, especially when others doubt your ability. This often stems from misconceptions about education, largely shaped by public schooling. Remember, no one knows or loves your children like you do—you are their first and natural teacher. You taught them fundamental skills like walking, talking, and riding a bike.
Think of education as discipleship. Learning doesn’t have to occur at a desk for eight hours; it can happen anywhere. As a parent, you have the freedom to personalize your child’s education and even outsource certain subjects if needed. Enroll in online courses if you can. The resources for homeschoolers are vast, and learning alongside your children can be a rewarding experience.
Above all, keep in mind that homeschooling is about cultivating a love for learning and following God’s path. In challenging moments, remember the purpose of education is not just to create impressive or well-rounded children, but to raise them up in the faith. When times get tough, fix your eyes on Christ and stay the course.
Make this year the year you say goodbye to government schools.
