05/20/2026
"You have to be delusional," Queen Latifah told the graduating class of North Carolina A&T State University in her commencement address last week. "You have to have delusional amounts of belief and faith to dream beyond your wildest dreams."
She knew exactly what she was talking about. Growing up in East Orange, New Jersey, taking two buses and two trains to get into New York City, surviving on $1.50 a day -- she still carried herself like the person she was going to become. "When was I delusional with faith? Well, it started off with me being 16 and calling myself Queen Latifah. And then at 18, to call my album All Hail the Queen." She was presenting herself the way she saw herself -- long before the world caught up.
She also told the graduates that believing in yourself means knowing when to say no. Her father had told her early: "A no is as strong as a yes." Years later, when everyone around her was pushing her toward a lucrative TV project her gut was telling her to turn down, she said no anyway. "Everybody was upset with me because I said no. But that left me free when another job came right behind it which ended up being a little movie called 'Chicago,' which led to a little nomination called an Academy Award, which shot me into the stratosphere and made me a movie star."
Queen Latifah left the graduates with one final charge. "Be delusional enough to call yourself something that the world hasn't called you yet. Be brave enough to walk down that road that no one else can see but you. Get your own crown and rock that damn thing."
To watch Queen Latifah's full commencement address at North Carolina A&T, visit https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vvg1wCKq0do
For two excellent books to give all Mighty Girls the confidence to pursue their dreams like Queen Latifah, we highly recommend "The Confidence Code for Girls" for ages 8 to 12 (https://www.amightygirl.com/the-confidence-code-for-girls) and "The Self-Esteem Workbook for Teens" ages 13 and up (https://www.amightygirl.com/the-self-esteem-workbook-for-teens)
For an inspiring picture book encouraging girls to make their voices heard, we recommend "Raise Your Hand" for ages 5 to 9 at https://www.amightygirl.com/raise-your-hand
For books to encourage Mighty Girls of all ages to bravely pursue their dreams, visit our blog post "Big Dreams for a New Year: 50 Books to Inspire Your Mighty Girl" at https://www.amightygirl.com/blog/?p=10834
Thanks to Girls Who Code for sharing this image!