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He told me he'd torn a shoulder muscle. He was having a heart attack.The read that caught it came from no checklist, and...
31/07/2026

He told me he'd torn a shoulder muscle. He was having a heart attack.
The read that caught it came from no checklist, and it is the same read your team needs from you.
This week's Handover is about the one thing AI will never do for your team, and what to do with the time it hands you back.
When a tool gives you an hour back, where does it go. Into the screen, or into your people?

He told me he'd torn a muscle in his shoulder. Mid-fifties.

We often think struggling teams have a people problem.In my experience, that's rarely the case.More often, they have a h...
14/07/2026

We often think struggling teams have a people problem.

In my experience, that's rarely the case.

More often, they have a human skills problem.

Here are three signs:

✅ Nobody gives feedback. People talk about each other instead of to each other.

✅ Conflict gets avoided until it explodes. Then everyone wonders how it got so bad.

✅ Your best people have gone quiet. Not because they're happy, but because they've stopped believing they'll be heard.

These aren't personality flaws.

They're skills that many people were never taught: communication, feedback, conflict resolution, emotional intelligence, and everyday leadership.

The encouraging part is that skills can be learned.

💬 What would you add to this list? What's a sign you've seen that a team has a human skills problem?

If this resonated, I'd really appreciate it if you liked, shared, or tagged someone who leads a team. And if you're interested in practical tips on communication, leadership, and building healthier workplace cultures, follow the page for more content like this.

14/07/2026

Most teams have one. The person whose behaviour sets the tone, and nobody names it.

The eye rolls. The negativity. The thing everyone works around.

Avoiding it feels like keeping the peace. It’s not. It spreads it. Your team is watching what you tolerate.

Name it early. Name it calm.

What has your team learned to work around?

09/07/2026

Your team reads your energy before they hear your words.

In the ED, if I panic, everyone panics. If I stay level, they stay level.

You can’t control what lands on your desk. You can train how you respond to it.

That gap — between what happens and what you do next — is the whole job.

Calm is a skill. You can get better at it.

Most arguments aren't about who's right. They're two people describing different parts of the same thing.Picture a big b...
07/07/2026

Most arguments aren't about who's right. They're two people describing different parts of the same thing.
Picture a big beachball. Red, blue, yellow, white. You're standing on the red panel, so from where you're standing, the ball is red. Obviously. You can see it with your own eyes.
But someone else is standing on the blue panel. And to them, that ball is blue. Just as obvious. Just as real.
So you argue. "It's red." "No, it's blue." And you can do that all day and get absolutely nowhere, because you're not actually disagreeing about the ball. You're both telling the truth about the little bit you can see.
Here's the part most people miss: nobody's standing where they can see the whole thing. Not them. Not you. We're all just describing our own panel and assuming it's the full picture.
So don't argue harder. Move.
Walk around the ball. Ask one question "What are you seeing from where you stand?" and actually listen to the answer. You don't have to give up your colour to do this. Understanding someone isn't the same as agreeing with them. You can hear their whole view and still hold your own. But now you're seeing more of the ball than you were a minute ago.
And the person who moves first? They're not backing down. They're not losing. They're the one leading the conversation. Curiosity is the strongest move in the room.
This plays out everywhere, the team meeting, the handover, the disagreement with your partner, the standoff with your teenager. Same ball. Different panels.
If this shifted something for you, give me a follow, I share practical human skills like this every week. 🧡
And if someone came to mind while you were reading, the person you always seem to end up going in circles with, send it their way. Sometimes the whole thing changes when you both realise you've just been standing on different sides of the same ball.

06/07/2026

Someone shares a problem and you jump straight to fixing it.

You mean well. You want to help. So you offer solutions, ideas, the five things they could try tomorrow.

But here’s what I learned the hard way. Often they did not come for a fix. They came to be heard.

The fixing can feel like you’re not really listening. Like you’re rushing them past the hard bit to get to the tidy answer. And that can leave people feeling more alone, not less.

So ask first. It takes one line.

“Do you want me to listen, or help you think it through?”

That question changes everything. It hands them the choice. It tells them you’re paying attention. And it saves you from solving a problem they never asked you to solve.

Most of the time, being heard is the help.

Try it this week. At work, at home, with the person who just needs a minute. You might be surprised how often “just listen” is the answer.

Follow for more on the small human skills that make a big difference at work and at home.

Resilient teams aren't tougher than everyone else. They're more connected.I learned this the hard way. First in my own l...
06/07/2026

Resilient teams aren't tougher than everyone else. They're more connected.
I learned this the hard way. First in my own life, then watching it play out in team after team.
When something goes wrong, the instinct is for one person to shoulder it. The team leader feels like they have to carry the whole thing. But that's the fastest road to burnout, and it stalls the entire team.
The stronger move is to share the weight. Name what happened. Work out what it taught you. Split up who does what. Then agree on one next step.
That's the tool I come back to for the heavy moments. STEP.
See it. Name what's happened, and how it feels.
Take stock. What did we learn.
Each take a part. Share the load.
Pick the next step. One move forward.
It doesn't need to be the whole map. Just the next step, taken together.
Your team will face hard days. That isn't a maybe. The only question is whether you face them alone or shoulder to shoulder.
So here's mine for you. Which step does your team skip when things get hard?
The full framework is in the link in my bio.
Follow me for more on leading the human side of work.

Teams break the same way a person does.Not in one big dramatic moment. In small fractures nobody names. The conversation...
03/07/2026

Teams break the same way a person does.
Not in one big dramatic moment. In small fractures nobody names. The conversation that never happens. The frustration that gets said to everyone except the person who could fix it. The team looks fine, until something goes wrong and it all shows up at once.
When a setback lands, the best teams I work with ask a different question. Not why did this happen to us, but what's next.
It's a small shift that changes everything. And it's the heart of Part 2, which is now live.
If you lead a team, or you're part of one having a hard run, have a read.
Full Blog Link in my Bio!

01/07/2026

“I told you so.”

Two seconds of feeling right. Then the person who’s already down stops bringing you their problems.

Leadership shows up in the small moments. Not in proving you saw it coming, but in asking “okay, where do we go from here?” That one question keeps the door open.

Being right isn’t the goal. Being useful is.

When has being right actually cost you?

Three words can change how feedback lands."Good work, but..." and everything before the "but" disappears. Swap it for "a...
01/07/2026

Three words can change how feedback lands.
"Good work, but..." and everything before the "but" disappears. Swap it for "and" and you keep them on your side.
"Why didn't you check?" puts them on the back foot. "Walk me through it" gets you the real story.
"You always do this" starts an argument. "This is the second time" starts a fix.
Same message. Completely different outcome.
I learnt this on the floor in the ED, where there's no time for feedback that makes people defensive. The words you pick decide whether someone shuts down or stays in the conversation.
Which one will you try this week?

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