07/08/2026
This , itโs worth remembering that funeral and burial wishes are not legally binding in Victoria.
Our 2016 report on Funeral and Burial Instructions found that this can lead to disputes in which family members have different ideas about how to honour their loved ones after they die. According to community groups we met, this is because death is often considered a taboo topic.
To prevent these disputes, we were told that people should talk to their family and friends about their wishes before they die. This helps the bereaved know what the deceased wanted and why, and allows the bereaved to feel comforted by the fact that they are able to give the deceased the farewell they wanted.
To read our report or watch a video on this community law reform project, visit: https://www.lawreform.vic.gov.au/project/funeral-and-burial-instructions/