05/09/2026
Father's Day can feel different when your dad has passed away from cancer.
This is the story of Canteen Youth Ambassador, Jag.
"Father's Day is always a difficult time for me. Watching other people celebrate the day with their dads is hard to watch, and can bring up feelings of jealousy or feeling like things are unfair."
Some traditions have changed shape rather than disappeared.
"Sometimes I will buy a Phantom comic, my father used to collect them and I would buy them for him whenever I saw them, so it's a nice way to remember him."
What's helped Jag most is connection with other young people who understand this particular kind of loss.
"My friends I've made at Canteen have really helped me through a lot of difficult times, and being able to talk to those friends when Father's Day is hard can make a world of difference. I'm able to help support them too, and we can share memories about our dads with each other."
Today, we're thinking of everyone for whom this day carries grief instead of celebration. If you know someone in this situation, a little check-in can go a long way.
Canteen exists so no young person has to face their grief without support. 💚