LIFE Matters Botswana

19/11/2025

Good evening and please keep me anon

Since I was born i never met my father because he denied the pregnancy when my mom told him she was pregnant. The sad part is he knew I was his but still denied 😔. Growing up I had a father who loves me,he is not my real father but he acts like one and never not even once bring this thing ya gore I'm not his bio child. All I want is for that man to know that I lived without him and I will continue to live without him. What I want is to know from him is where I come from...I wanna know my roots coz academically I have been an A student until senior school when things started to change...I went to church and they tried to help but it did not work then I consulted a traditional healer who then told me that the problem comes from my father's family ancestors so ke kopa thuso.

The only thing I kno about him koore he is a Maths teacher ko Mowana CJSS ko Mahalapye and I don't kno his names

19/11/2025

Hello Mr Bakani, please make me anonymous.

😂😂 I'm laughing because I just realized that I once came here with a sad story a couple of weeks ago due to unemployment. But my story is different now and I'm so happy. So I've been unemployed for a long time and this December would be my third year of not being employed but that's changed. I got a call two weeks ago from this other company and I'm starting in a week. I am so happy I don't even know how to explain it. However I have a challenge with one thing, about what I'm going to wear to work, I don't even have shoes. I actually never got to buy them cause like I said I haven't had money for the past 3 years. I've been on survival mode since. So I'm writing to you to post this for me to ask any of your followers o rwalang size 6 to help me with some formal shoes that they are no longer using I would really appreciate them. 🙏🙏 I'm not so concerned about clothes compared to shoes but if anyone also have some formal pants I'm a size 34 & I would also appreciate that with all of my heart. Thanks. 😊

19/11/2025

Dumela mma, ntire anonymous. I'm just a young girl in her mid 20s. I have been a breadwinner at home for 2 years or more now. I have been helping my sibling who got married(traditionally) as a teenager. She divorced whlist in her mid 20s with 5 kids. She only did PSLE. So upon myself finding a training Job in one of the good companies in Botswana, I decided gore a boele skolong a kwale IGCSE. The motive is simply because clearly PSLE at this age with 5 kids it's not sustainable to take care a large family. She was married at a traditional village for 10 plus years and that marriage wasn't good caz o tsile a lwala tota. So despite gore ke tlhokomela bana bagagwe,ene and my parent it really brought a serious financial burden on myself. I found myself in debts because of this issue. Remember I'm still on training and again I'm suffering from a chronic rare condition that is expensive to maintain. Mothowadimo ke kopa o nkopele mo Batswaneng gore ba batlele nkgonne tiro lefa ele cleaning service or security or anything. She tried to find a job mma bare she doesn't have form 5 or IGCSE. Ke paletswe ke go mo duelela exam for this year. I still owe the lady wa the owner of the school le Jaana. I'm in serious distress currently. Go ilwe courting for maintainance it didn't bear fruits at all. Rragwe bana sale a ntsha 1k this year hela. Nako tse dingwe ke akanya go ba koba caz nna mma ka imelwa ebile ke mo mo mathateng. I tried to sort help but to no avail.

Batswana ba Seka bare ke eng ke sa buwe le the owner of the school. It's been months ke registerile go mmona ,there are delays. I tried to inbox her on messenger ga a nkarabe le ene. I guess she is swamped.

18/11/2025

Rre Bakani Madume le Batswana ka bophara..kindly mpipe sefatlhego

Waitse bathong ha nkabo go kgonwa go abaa botshelo ,nkabo ke dira yaalo waitse
Bathong Na ga ke tlhaloganye gore ake lwaa le diteko tsa botshelo or ke boitseme bathong
Bagaetsho Nna kana sepe sepe sa botshelo jwaaka se ke se tshwarang sa phatlhala ,ke Tenna batho ke sa ba dira sepe
Tiro e hedile,ka leka ka pissjob ka wela ka seru sa bolwetsi,koo direlationship ka tshaba tota ka gore ke kgona Bona motho atlaa with good intentions haa kere ka itumela gore ke bone motho next thing o dule mo Nna without any explanation
Gompieno hake bereke,pissjob go eme ,hakena ope yoo nka buang le ene and worst hakena hakena ke tshaba le go itikodisa batho okare ka ba lapisa
Bathong ke dire yaang ??

18/11/2025

Vee Mampeezy wee! Ijaa.

Mosepele wa go latela dikoloto o moleele o batla katara ya Letlhale, Iyooooh. Fa ke tsena ko Botswana ga ke bate go go leletsa ke botsa gore o ntsha pina leng rra please🙏

17/11/2025

17/11/2025

FROM ANONY📌

Good day Mr Bakani ,waitsi ke amegile ka Sepatela sa Ramotswa, Nne ke ile go lekola Motsetsi ,kere ko bona ngwanake ke le happy gore ko Mmona ele nna wa ntlha kele Rraagwe..

Ga ke tsena kwa gatwe ,Ga go tsenwe mo Martnity ward,sale ka covid ,jaanong ke ipotsa ka covid ga ya bolo go feta why re sa fiwe tshono ya go bona bana ba rona ,kana ke bonela ngwanake fela mo dinepeng for now...

Ga ele gore ke molao o mosha ke mathata jaanong ,nna re godile re itse gore mo Martnity ward go a tsenwa unless ole under age,

Imagine motsetsi gotwe a ntatele ko ntle mme atswa Theater phakela a rokilwe,,ke dilo mang tsone tse batho ba Modimo ,haekhona

17/11/2025

THE YOUNG LADY WHO WAS OFFERED A DRINK AND WAS ACCUSED OF STEALING THE CARD
(Please keep anonymous )

Hello Life matters and followers 🙏,I'm the young lady that was given the card by the gentleman on friday at Lexus Launge. I'm responding on what he said and I'd like to appreciate the time he took to apologies on this page .Pelo yaaka e wetse jaanong because i was really worried about my image and how people would see me because he really caused a big seen gape a sa batle go reetsa .what happened like he said he offered to buy me a drink a ba mpolelela gore ga a mpatle marato he just would like to appreciate my beauty and presence. So he asked a re can i trust you then i said yes thats when he gave me the card and pin ,i was hesitant about it because i know the dangers of doing that expecially nowadays .I suggested him to buy the drink and bring to my table a be a re he is tired o buile teng gantsi and he asked me to bring the beer he was drinking and 🚬 .By the way he was with his friend but he approached me a le one .Ke ne ka tsaya karata and went on to get the 2 drinks he offered and what he asked for after that the waiter took the drinks to my table while i was talking to the cashier on how i can tip her because i loved her service. So the gentleman came to me at the till and i gave him the card and thanked him and then i joined my colleague's to further enjoy the music. So ga ke ntse ke ntse he comes and ask where his card was and i searched myself ebe ke re e check ko go wena ,he didn't even listen he started shouting a re i trusted you a bua dilo tse dintsi tse di utlwisang botlhoko and i tried my best gore batho ba seka ba utlwa re bue rele babedi but the essuie escalated, ebe ke tsamaya back to the table ke ba botsa gore ga ba bona karata and they said no ,i asked the people i was with and started searching while he was there talking to my colleague's a omana and i remained calm listening to him .We suggested he blocked 🚫 his card and re ye go bona the CCTV and still he did not listen, I offered to also replace his card and refund everything my colleague's told him gore we know this lady she can't do that at all and they defended me all the way ebile le bone ba omana( thats how much we got each other in every situation ),so we went on and asked for the CCTV and ebe re e lebelelela before that i gave him my phone ke re tshwara jaana ga reya kopele .All of a sudden he disappeared re sa mmone a sa laela ,and lenna i had a few i even thought maybe ke tseetse ke re i gave it back and maybe i did not before the CCTV part .We looked for him and he was nowhere to be found ene le his friend i later realized i don't have my phone and go sa click gore ke mo e neetse i was so stressed keeping the composure.We thought e utswilwe the security guard and everyone helped re e batla we even searched this other lady 💔who was sitting next to us and when i called it e ne e lela and he answered a re he went home to check if he didn't leave his card there his on his way bringing it and we were shocked like what a e tlogela jang ntse re e dirisa?We waited and he brought it ebe re mmolelela gore a ye go lebelelela dicamera and at this point bara ya tswalwa ....he did and still really looked clueless totaa .I took his dials ke re he should update me ga a e bone and he called a re oe bone ga a apola and he asked to buy me a six pack and i asked him to make a public apology instead because totaa hela it was bad everyone at the bar was looking and ba bone sengwe le sengwe .If he didn't make the apology imagine how peope have viewed me after ka ba tsamaile re ntse rele hoo ,imagine destiny helpers,business in general and my reputation ne ke a go itsiwe kele ngwanyana wa legodu gape hela if he would have not reacted like that i would have forgiven him without all of this jaanong people were involved.I'm glad everything came to light Modimo o mogolo ...i was just not happy with how this gentleman reacted to the essuie he had really hurt my feelings and the people i was with ,re ile malapeng re le sober reality e betsa and the fast that we offered every solution ha ke re ke tla sega karata ya gago and give him back his money then he said can i really afford it. I was hurt because i tried all i could with the peole i was with to bring the solution but o ne o sa batle go reetsa i hope you learned to control your bad temper o sa tlhaloganye ebile o sa batle go reetsa this could happen to anyone really. That is why ke sa rate go rekelwa di drink i accepted the offer because he was geniune its rare to hear that we all know some men would have wanted something in return .Gape hela i had planned going out on buying drinks.

Anyway I would like to apologies to Nexus Lounge for the seen that happened disturbing your customers and also take this time to appreciate everyone who helped ,those who believed me and my colleague's for stepping out big time for me i don't know what i would have done kele one .Also I'd like to appreciate the good service offered at Nexus Lounge it was my first time being there if o sa go itse try it out 🥰.As for you gentleman like you said o lebelelele go nwa gago and Batswana in general festive ya tsena a re nweng sentle bad things happen out there .With that being said i offer massages and i appreciate support ya lona Batswana to enquire more you will let Mr Bakani and team know .Thank you for listening and I'll be reading comments 🙏

17/11/2025

Good evening Sir.. Ke kopa go nna Anon
I am doing currently CIPS level 6 ko BAC, I have my diploma certificate and haven't volunteered anywhere😥well, I did apply to few firms ebe ba sa approve.. Now my problem is I am scared🥺I keep on wondering if ke tsoo go bona tiro after I complete my level 6💔gape ke tshoswa koore I currently have no other side hustles, I have 2 resits tsa level 5 yet I have no money to write them again😩I am currently renting(ke a share), kaa palama so madi a hela hela ke sa itirela sepe😢kenale kgatlhego ya go itirela small business ya go rekisa ditlhako yaanong hakena one madi a go simolla💔

Ke kopa your followers ba mpatlise tiro either go tlhatswa dilwana, go feela jarata kana go sala le bana (on weekends mostly) 🙏

Ke kopa dikgakololo gape mo batswaneng gore how did they overcome fear ya go hetsa skolo ebe ba tlhoka tiro😢Thank you

17/11/2025

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17/11/2025

Dumela Botsadi.

Please keep me anonymous 🙏

I went out on Friday night with my friends..in Gaborone Phase2 where we had fun from the Bars until to the Club. We went into Nexus Lounge where I met these other ladies all chilled by themselves and they didn't ask a thing from me.. I approached one of them and I offered them a drink and she was like oh thanks that's nice of you I just trusted the lady a 1st sight caused they looked all decent and you could tell these are independent ladies.. I handed the lady my card and the pin to go get a round for her.. she did that hela sentle without any foul and she brought back the card. So it's me who panicked afterwards after I didn't find the card in my wallet seems like I took the card and put it straight on my back pocket of my pants which were torn and it fell down to my ankles where I couldn't feel them. I've had to confirm with the security cameras at the club (Nexus Lounge) phase2 where we confirmed that i took the card. At that point I was still in denial cause clearly i was drunk and i couldn't recall a lot of things. But lady remained calm told me to block the card, she even gave me her phone ha ntse re bata karata to really prove she's honest.. I just had to give up even though ne ke sa e bone.. I gave up and quarrelled that I get a new card. The lady gave me her number so that i call her once i found it cause she was very honest she didnt take..When I got home ha ke apola my pants the card fell on the floor and immediately I got sudden regrets and felt like ke tarnish*tse ngwana wa batho leina.. immediately I sent her text since I had no airtime letting her know that I'm sorry and found the card . Apparently she understood and accepted my apology but since this scene happened infront of other people at Nexus Lounge (Phase 2,Gaborone).. I want to take this chance and announce that the Lady never took the card she long brought it back nna ke nna ke sa itsi ko ke e beileng teng. I hope everyone who witnessed this scene forgives me and they should know that Ngwana Batho ne a sa tsaa karata nna ke nna ne ke thapetswe tota. And I hope this wont happen again 🙏 And maybe just a little advice from the experience let's learn to drink responsible and respect one another. Also I would like to thank the NEXUS LOUNGE MANAGEMENT FOR ASSISTING they really care for all their customers. A kalo kopa le nkinele diatla metsing.

15/11/2025

Saturdaying✅️