10/13/2026
Tribute Tuesday
Colton: December 1, 1990 - July 27, 2024
Teddy: January 7, 2019 - July 6, 2024
Colton and I met in Red Deer and spent 9 years growing up together. Colton supported us through sand hauling; a class 1 driver for over 16 years. Life was tricky no matter where we lived in Alberta, so when I gave birth to his second son, we moved to Grande Prairie to have a life together. My lot in life was to be surrounded by strong, funny, handsome men. Colton was strong, moving mountains with a level of endurance that is rare to find. He was smart, skilled, calculating while still being approachable and charismatic. He was the first to say what everyone else was thinking. Confidently and unapologetically who he was. He challenged and encouraged me in ways no one else has.
Teddy was a force from the moment he was born. He broke me the way I needed to be broke. He made me laugh every single day. He was wild, fast and clumsy. He would hurl himself into life with that lack of self-preservation that throws parentās hearts along with it. We loved to sing, paint and build. He was an adventure buddy with a huge smile and an incredible imagination. He loved flowers, dragons, ghosts and unicorns. He was earnestly searching for a unicorn and concerned if the moon loves him. He was pure magic. My boys are my reason, my pride and my legacy.
July 6th, 2024 changed everything. Colton, a career driver, loving and proud father, was driving Teddy home from the dinosaur museum. My whole life was in that truck. It was a warm July afternoon when they slowed to a stop, waiting to turn left. They were struck from behind with great force and hurled into an SUV and semi-truck. Our son was torn apart in front of his father, who suffered long enough to witness this and his own entire body fail but then perished 3 weeks later. They werenāt doing anything wrong; they were just in his way. This destroyed my entire family. Our future and my legacy reduced to a story. I can only be authentic and hope our senseless, preventable tragedy doesnāt happen to anyone elseās babies. My olā man is forever 33, our son forever 5 and this world was better with them in it.