04/06/2026
Romance fraud costs UK victims £102 million
People across the UK lost more than £102 million to romance fraud last year this typically involves offenders building trust and emotional connections over time before requesting money. These requests are often justified using fabricated reasons, such as emergencies, investment opportunities or plans to meet in person.
Romance fraud remains closely linked to online environments, particularly social media and dating platforms, where criminals can easily create convincing fake profiles. Investigators have also noted an increase in the use of AI-generated images and messages to make fraudulent identities appear more realistic. In many cases, romance fraud is combined with fake investment schemes, including cryptocurrency, increasing the financial risk to victims. Police are urging people to stay vigilant when forming online relationships and to watch for these warning signs:
Early Warning Signs (Profile & First Contact)
• Too good to be true profile - Unrealistically attractive photos or “perfect” life story (military, engineer abroad, widowed with child, etc.)
• Very quick emotional connection - They express love or deep feelings within days (“love bombing”)
• Claims to be overseas - Often working abroad (oil rigs, military deployment, shipping industry)
• Minimal or inconsistent personal details - Vague answers, avoids specifics, or stories that don’t quite add up
Communication Red Flags
• Quickly moves you off the social media or dating platform - Pushes to switch to WhatsApp, Telegram, email, or text almost immediately
• Always has excuses not to meet or video call - Camera broken, working in a secure location, bad signal, etc.
• Scripted or repetitive language - Messages sometimes feel copied/pasted or overly formal/unusual phrasing
• Time pattern inconsistencies - Claims to be in one country but messages at odd times for that location
Emotional Manipulation Tactics
• Love bombing” followed by dependence - They rush intimacy, then build emotional reliance
• Creates urgency or crisis situations - Sudden emergencies: illness, accident, legal trouble, or stranded abroad
• Plays on sympathy - Widowed, lonely, or raising a child alone
Financial Red Flags (MOST CRITICAL)
• Asks for money in unusual ways such as Gift cards and Cryptocurrency
• Requests start small then escalate - Just £50 for phone credit” → later thousands for “medical emergency”
• Promises repayment but never delivers
• Claims money is needed to meet you - Travel tickets, visas, customs or “fees” to release funds
• Mentions large sums of money stuck elsewhere - Needs your help to “unlock” inheritance or contract payment
Behaviour Red Flags
• Gets defensive when questioned
• Refuses to verify identity
• Profiles disappear or change suddenly
What to do if you are a Victim of Romance Fraud
Report it immediately: Visit - UK's Home for Reporting Cyber Crime & Fraud - Report Fraud or call 0300 123 2040
If you have shared financial details, or lost money also contact your bank's fraud team by calling 159
PCSO 30204