25/02/2026
Since starting Sort My Life three months ago, I’ve been thinking a lot about what “person centred” support really looks like day to day.
One of my favourite parts of the week is when my client Dan goes through my scheduling paperwork and points out my mistakes. 😂 He loves catching me out getting dates mixed up. And I love it because it levels the dynamic. I’m human. He’s capable. It reinforces his autonomy and reminds us both that this is a partnership, not a hierarchy.
We hear the phrase “person centred” everywhere, but in real life it’s messy, human and different for everyone. With good communication, the right relationship and clear boundaries, support can be safe, flexible and a lot of fun.
One of the reasons I set up Sort My Life as a small independent micro-enterprise is because it gives me the freedom to actually work in a person centred way. I can slow down, adapt, rethink and shape support around the person and work with the system, not for it.
For me, that means working with someone, not just following a plan because it’s written down. It means documenting things in a meaningful way, not just to “cover myself”. It means talking through care plans regularly and ask what’s working, what isn’t, and how we can make things better together.
I also keep all my policies visible and up to date. Safeguarding, lone working, home working, risk assessments, complaints. If someone is trusting me in their home or with their loved ones, they deserve full transparency.
If this way of working resonates with you, I’d genuinely love to hear your thoughts. I’ll be expanding soon and looking for companion support workers who share this approach.
Here’s Dan the Man 🤜🤛
Who you’ll be seeing lots more of in the weeks to come…
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