30/08/2026
🌺 “He Married The Love Of His Life… Three Weeks Later He Left For The Falklands. He Never Came Home. The Story of Lance Corporal Nigel Robert Smith, 2nd Battalion, The Parachute Regiment.” 🌺
Lance Corporal Nigel Robert Smith was born in Cheltenham on 16 August 1960 and grew up alongside his two brothers. As a teenager, he decided upon a military career, joining the Parachute Regiment as a Junior Soldier before completing the demanding training required to earn the coveted maroon beret.
Over the next six years, Nigel served with distinction, including operational tours in Northern Ireland. By 1982, he had risen to the rank of Lance Corporal and was serving with D Company, 2nd Battalion, The Parachute Regiment.
Behind the uniform was a young man deeply loved by his family and friends. Nigel was known for carrying lucky charms wherever he went. Among them were a horseshoe from his wedding cake and an engraved cigarette lighter given to him by the woman he loved.
Wendy first met Nigel at a friend’s party. He had become covered in mud while taking part in party games, yet still managed to ask her out the following day. Wendy later laughed that when they met again, he had not even washed all the mud from around his ears.
Their relationship quickly blossomed. They became engaged at Christmas and originally intended to marry after Nigel returned from a six-month deployment to Belize. However, as tensions continued to rise between Britain and Argentina, Nigel asked for the wedding to be brought forward.
On 3 April 1982, Nigel and Wendy were married at St John’s Church in Upper Hale.
Although he was entitled to leave, the newlyweds never enjoyed a honeymoon. Nigel instead returned to barracks to complete promotion examinations for his corporal’s cadre. Just twenty-four days after their wedding, he sailed south with 2 PARA as part of the British task force sent to liberate the Falkland Islands.
Before leaving, Nigel often spoke about the possibility that he might not return. Wendy believed it was simply his naturally pessimistic way of preparing for the worst. He told her that coming home would be “a bonus.”
Yet during the long voyage south, something appeared to change. Wendy remembered Nigel becoming increasingly cheerful in his letters. He seemed to grow in confidence and maturity, and she later said: “He became a man overnight.”
On 28 May 1982, 2 PARA launched its assault against the heavily defended Argentine positions surrounding Darwin and Goose Green. The battalion advanced across open ground while exposed to relentless machine-gun, mortar and sniper fire.
During the closing stages of the battle, D Company moved towards Goose Green itself. Lieutenant James Barry advanced after what appeared to be an Argentine offer of surrender. Instead, heavy gunfire suddenly erupted.
Lieutenant Barry was killed. Corporal Paul Sullivan was fatally wounded. Lance Corporal Nigel Robert Smith was also struck by small-arms fire and killed.
He was just twenty-one years old.
The following day, the Argentine garrison surrendered. Goose Green became the first major British land victory of the Falklands War and a turning point in the campaign.
For the nation, it was a victory. For Wendy, it meant that the young husband she had watched sail to war only three weeks after their wedding would never come home.
Following the war, Nigel was repatriated to Britain and laid to rest at Aldershot Military Cemetery. His headstone bears the deeply personal family inscription:
“A Soldier
For Peace And Love He Died
Forever In Our Hearts.”
Today, more than four decades after you made the ultimate sacrifice, Lance Corporal Nigel Robert Smith, you are remembered not only as one of the young Paratroopers who fought and died at Goose Green, but as a beloved son, brother and husband whose life with the woman he loved had only just begun.
You are still not forgotten.
🌺 Lest We Forget — Lance Corporal Nigel Robert Smith, 24428703, D Company, 2nd Battalion, The Parachute Regiment. Killed at Goose Green in the Falkland Islands on 28 May 1982, aged just 21. 🌺
📸 Lance Corporal Nigel Robert Smith during his service with the Parachute Regiment, alongside a treasured photograph from his wedding day and his grave at Aldershot Military Cemetery, where the Parachute Regiment emblem and his family’s loving inscription preserve the memory of a young husband and soldier who never returned from the Falklands.