28/05/2026
Sorry this has ended up being a long post…! edited to add: This is not a sympathy post nor is it supposed to be negative, just honest! 🙂
Firstly, apologies for the radio silence, but the election period really knocked me for 6…it was a challenging time which has left me mentally, physically and spiritually drained! Thank you so so much for the words of support and kindness, I honestly am touched at comments and correspondence I have received. From the bottom of my heart, thank you!! 🙏
Secondly yes of course I was disappointed to lose, but I was even more disappointed to lose to a Reform candidate as I believe we need to build bridges not fuel anger and hatred whipped up by mainstream media and a multi millionaire protagonist who led the disaster that was Brexit and then ‘did one’!! 😟
Thirdly, I’ve met and spent time with the Ryde South East councillor Chris Way (of Reform) whom I came second to, and he seems a genuinely nice chap, but I was very disappointed to see him vote for Jonathan Bacon, the leader of the disastrous school place planning debacle, to be our new council leader last night! 🤦🏼♀️ Let’s just hope none of our local schools come up for closure again…!
Fourthly, I am still currently a Ryde town councillor, but I would urge you to contact Cllr Way if you have any major issues, as he has far more access to the right people to be able to help…I can always be here to listen, but as my role is only at town I don’t have the same access to the right people, or power to get things done. My role, unlike Cllr Ways, is unpaid. I have had to accept that being a town councillor brings very little value to my families’ lives and they have suffered as a result of the time I have given to the role and the impact it has had on me personally.
Cllr Chris Way has committed to serving Ryde South East, he is a decent guy and wants to help, so let him 🙏 I have every faith he will put the effort in as he seems genuine. You also, if in Ryde South East, have the deputy mayor, Jess Higgins, to contact with any issues, as she remains a Ryde South East town councillor too, as well as the Mental Health representative for Ryde Town Council.
Either way, there are people who are here to help, I will always listen and signpost you to the relevant people/department. I care deeply about Ryde and the people in our community and always will, but this result really has led me to look very hard at my work/life balance and admit some uncomfortable truths.
Have a wonderful Thursday and beyond everyone and thank you for the support and for believing in me 🫶🏻