21/05/2025
International Tea Day – the legacy of Duchess Anna Maria
On International Tea Day, we are highlighting the figure who is fondly remembered for popularising the tradition of taking afternoon tea, Anna Maria Stanhope, Duchess of Bedford (1783-1857). The Duchess was a lifelong friend of Queen Victoria, and is credited with inventing the English custom of afternoon tea in the mid-19th century. While it is certainly her influence that eventually made it a nationwide practice, she was not the inventor of the habit and today we want to shed light on this common misconception.
Anna Maria’s family were taking tea in the afternoon long before her birth in 1783, as demonstrated by the painting ‘Lord Harrington’s Tea Party’ from 1730. Shortly after her father’s post in Jamaica as Colonel of the 85th Regiment of Foot, Anna Maria was born in Portugal (incidentally where tea drinking had been a popular custom for many decades) and her family soon returned to their estates in England. An eye witness account from Captain Rees Howell Gronow, who made a visit to Harrington House with General Lincoln Stanhope in 1814, states that the family had ‘undeviating tea-table habits’ and that General Stanhope ‘found the family, as he left them on departure, drinking tea in the long gallery’.
Thus, having grown up with the habit of drinking tea in the afternoon, when she married Francis, the Marquess of Tavistock and later the Duke of Bedford, in 1808 she introduced her own family tradition to her new life with the Marquess. In 1837, Princess Victoria became Queen and invited Anna Maria to become a Lady in waiting, in particular Lady of the Bedchamber. The Duchess was soon immersed in Court life and took with her the custom of drinking tea in the afternoon. Before long, Anna Maria had subconsciously introduced afternoon tea to many ladies and their households across the country, including the Queen Victoria, and thus securing her legacy as the individual who popularised the taking of Afternoon Tea.