06/03/2026
International Women’s Day | Celebrating Our Foster Carers
Sunday is International Women’s Day, we pause to honour the extraordinary women who open their hearts and homes to children who need them most. Among them is Melissa Harris, one of our remarkable foster carers.
Melissa is a single foster carer, a devoted mother to her two biological children, and a safe, consistent presence for two teenagers in her care. Alongside this, she runs her own thriving beauty business—one grounded in empowerment, body positivity, and self-belief. Through both her personal and professional life, Melissa leads by example, showing what it truly means to be a strong, independent woman with compassion at her core.
What stands out most about Melissa is her balance: resilience paired with softness; determination anchored in kindness. It is this equilibrium that makes her not only an exceptional foster carer, but an inspiration.
On days like today, I am reminded that Melissa represents so many women across our fostering community. I see it in the quiet, unseen moments—the foster carer pulling on her nurse’s uniform at dawn, securing a baby seat, managing childminder drop-offs, and holding together the needs of her household and her children before the day has truly begun. I see it when I step into a foster home and witness a foster baby seamlessly woven into family life, supported through instinctive teamwork and deep care that makes the complex appear effortless.
I also see it in foster families who challenge traditional expectations entirely. In one home, the woman works as a bank manager while her partner takes on the majority of the daily childcare responsibilities. Together, they lead from a place of flexibility, mutual respect, and non-judgement—adapting roles, defying assumptions, and making fostering work against the odds through understanding and unity.
These women—and the families who stand beside them—carry immense responsibility. They hold trauma with tenderness, provide stability amid uncertainty, and give love without condition, all while navigating careers, family life, and the emotional labour that fostering quietly demands.
While we are deeply grateful for the invaluable contribution of our male foster carers, today we intentionally shine a light on the women whose strength, adaptability, and compassion sit at the heart of fostering.
Today, and every day, we celebrate you.
Thank you for all that you give.
We see you.