16/03/2023
ASK YOURSELF WHAT YOU WANT OUT OF IT (AND DETERMINE NOT TO WASTE YOUR TIME).
I often wake up, and certain words or songs come to mind. No, there'd be no prior thought or reflection and, as such, no direct link or immediate explanation, yet they teach me a lot upon review. Last year, I began to write them down in the very words they came, so I remember. However, today, I chose to share my understanding perchance it would be helpful to someone.
The words upon waking this morning were, 'ask yourself what you want out of it (and determine not to waste your time).' Of course, I immediately quizzed myself, wondering whether I had any pending decisions. Still, the more I reflected, the clearer it was that these words were not limited to an aspect of my life but could be applied variedly for excellent evaluations and decision-making.
For context, we actively or passively make daily decisions, whether starting or being part of projects, building romantic or professional relationships/associations, or simply going about daily routines. Just as it is essential to recall the start date/point of specific commitments, we must consciously evaluate whether it still serves 'our purpose' as we go along. Purpose measurement is not for business/projects alone; we should also apply the same to ourselves. Ask yourself whether that activity, friendship, relationship, association, or commitment gives you precisely what you want, and where it doesn't, decide to regain control lest you go adrift. You wouldn't want to waste time in the wrong place because time is precious, and worst still, you'll be unfulfilled.
To know whether something still serves your purpose requires a personal yardstick, and you (no one else) must actively do that evaluation. We all have different reasons for starting or committing to things, so we are to define success in that area. Efficient evaluations also require you to map out progress timelines, which helps you channel your focus. One important thing to keep in mind is that you are the determiner. For example, if a particular activity no longer gives you what you want, 'determine not to waste your time' even if it still serves others. It may mean it is time to move on or introduce change.
To conclude, just like you would measure the performance of a business/project, you should evaluate the purpose of your commitments and resolve not to waste time where it is no longer fit for purpose. Likewise, whether you've been on it too long or expended time and resources, you can choose to get it right today.
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