Bobby Iyke Joe, No. 9 mende Estate Maryland, Ikeja G.R.A (2026)

01/12/2023

Yes It's Already December And I Haven't Achieve What I Wanted To Achieved This Year,

So Who Do I Blame??

That's The Big Question To Be Ask.....
But Then You Just Have To Think Back, Refresh Your Memories And Remember That By This Time Last Year They're Some People You See But Can't See Them Again Today, Even Earlier This Year Some People Do Plan To Achieved Big Just Like You Plan But None Of Them Are Alive Today To See This Day.

So All You Have To Do Now Is Turn To The Lord And Appreciate HIM That HE Has Achieved The Biggest Achievement For You Been Alive Today Is The Biggest Achievement That Even The So Called Rich Men Didn't Achieve.

Thank You Lord For Keeping Me And My Family Member To See This Day, And All Of Us Shall See 2024 Including The Person Reading This In Jesus Name! Amen

Don't Forget Success Is Not An Option It's A Must'. Says The LORD".

Today I Must Confess That Things I Have Seen Gives Me The Courage To PRAISE The LORD' For The Things I Have Not Seen.

It's A Last Month Of The Year 2023;
As I Wish You All A Lovely Happy New Month, Kindly Check All My Records For The Past 11 Months.

Check And See Where You Can Correct Me, Encourage Me, Advice Me, Teaches Me, Direct Me And Above All, Forgive Me For Not Being Perfect Or The Best You Have Ever Think.

I Still Believe That One Day I Will Make You Proud;
Make You Proud As A Son,
Make You Proud As A Brother,
Make You Proud As An Uncle,
Make You Proud As A Husband,
Make You Proud As A Father,
Make You Proud As A Good Friend.
And Above All I Will Make Sure That We All Remains Happy Forever.

Bobby Iyke Joe Says Happy New December Month.

19/11/2021

Hello, who's ready for the Big up Xmas from Engr Bobby

18/09/2020

Due To Challenging Situations That Each And Everyone Of Us Is Facing In One Way Or The Other,

We're Here To Say It's Time We Start Supporting Each Other No Matter How Little, You May Not Know How Many Life's You May Save With The Little Help You Offer.

07/09/2020

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04/09/2020

How To Love A Woman –
10 Ways For Men To Love
By Bobby Iyke Joe

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Men seek comfort, confirmation that they are ok. Most men are, at heart, uncertain about themselves. Men want answers to many questions, an important one is “How to love a woman?”

Do you know what love is?
You form a relationship and get married to affirm your place in the world.

You learn, you think how to treat a woman, how to be with her.
You call that love.
But ultimately it doesn’t seem to work.
You wonder where love went.

Perhaps it was never really love in the first place, perhaps it was an attempt to feel the comfort you found with your mother.
A man’s wife, girlfriend or partner is not his mother.

The love you need to show her is of a totally different kind.
It’s critical that you understand this in learning how to love a woman .

See Men Who Can’t Love for a view on why you might find it difficult to love your woman.
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Here are 10 ways to access this love and create an amazing relationship, how to love a woman:

1. Start by loving yourself
If you are unable to love yourself, you are unable to love someone else.
This is something that men, particularly, have trouble with.
You might respect yourself, think you are absolutely amazing, but loving yourself, that’s a bit sissy.
No it’s not, it’s the basis of life and the basis of a balanced personality.
If you have a troubled relationship you should look first of all to yourself, this is often where the trouble lies.

2. Tell her you love her
This is lesson two of how to love a woman. Tell her you love her!
This means saying the words so she completely understands and is in no doubt about it. You love her.
She needs you to say this all the time and she needs you to volunteer it, not say it in reply to her questioning.
The worst thing you can say is, “You know I do.” She doesn’t, that’s why she’s asking… Duh…

3. Just love her for herself
Your love is not conditional, it is not based on any special qualities.
You love her.
Women have qualities we love in them, perhaps they’re smart, or s*xy, or inspirational, or funny, or even rich.
This is not why you love her, you love her just because of her, nothing else.
Even though you celebrate everything that she is, even though you worship her for what she does in the world, she needs to know that you simply love her, no matter what.
This is so crucial.

4. Live in your power
Whilst a man in love is an emotional being he must not stop being the man he is.
Your love should come from the power inside yourself, from your very soul.
The love must be part of your power as a man and it must be part of how you live.
You must remain just who you are, you must be the man she met and fell in love with.
She finds excitement in your masculine strength, particularly when it laced with love. Don’t ever let her down.

5. Don’t live in the past
Never dwell on the past and use it to judge your woman.
Life does not always treat us well and we certainly don’t always treat life well.
Things go wrong and we mess up.
Strife in our loving relationship is something to let go of once it’s over, it’s something to let slip into the past.
We must learn the lessons and move on ensuring that we don’t go there again.
Move on and live, always, in the present.

6. Get to know her
How often do you say, “My wife doesn’t understand me.”
What you really mean is,
“I don’t understand my wife.”
Love can only grow and deepen through understanding.
You can never get to the point where you think you know everything about her, no woman is that simple.
She is a complex person that even she doesn’t understand.
You need to love her and get to know her with patience and determination.

7. Count your blessings
Count the blessings you have together, the things you have achieved together, all that you are as a couple.
This should be a regular part of your life together.
While I said, above, don’t live in the past, it’s ok to recount the great things in the past.
This must be tempered with looking at the amazing things you are going to do in the future.
As a rule of thumb it is advisable to expect a future way beyond one that you can imagine.
Expectations can lead to frustration if they limit you, expecting them to go way beyond is a good step into the future.

8. Give love, always
Love is about giving rather than receiving.
Love is a creative force that grows out of the desire to give more than you receive.
It is crucial that you are able to receive the love that is offerred to you otherwise it quickly dies, but you have to focus on the contribution you make to her.
“Give and you shall receive”, but give without expecting anything in return.

9. Pay attention to her
Women need attention all the time.
It is absolutely vital that you understand this.
Many of the annoying habits that women have are merely attempts to get your attention.
Take heed of them and pay attention.
Men are focused and directed and can easily lose themselves in what they are doing.
This is one of the qualities that many women love in their men, but not to the exclusion of them.
You need to find a balance that shows how important your woman is to you without losing your passion for your mission.

10. Start afresh each day
Start again as if it was the first day of the relationship.
Welcome her into your world and look forward to your day together.
Give her your love and tell her you love her.
Do it again in a different way and repeat. Im sure I dont have to tell you where to go from here.
This refreshing of your love will keep it alive and bring you closer to each other.
Through this your love will deepen and become an essential part of everyday you spend together.
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So what is love… really?
It’s an overwhelming emotion you have about another person, an emotion that you can’t truly explain but you can’t get rid of.

It makes you want to be with that person, hold them, touch them, have s*x with them.
It shows itself as an exchange of energy, a polarity, that excites your soul.

Love makes you feel great and totally transforms life.
Love is worship of the other person, the woman who is divine for you.

Love is the power house behind our lives, it is the reason we live.

Coming Up Next... How To Love A Man.
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21/07/2020

Here we go, if 1k is not too small for you, oya comment on what you can use it for, I will send it right now.

12/07/2020

When you’re in difficult times, more than ever, you need to look for opportunities to do good. When your dream seems impossible, find somebody that you can help make their dream come to pass.
If you don't like the way your life is going, redesign it. Redeem the years you lost. Restore your vision, revive your passion for living, and reclaim what was dormant inside of you. I cannot give you the dream but I can give you the tools to reach the dreams.

04/07/2020

LADIES WILL YOUR BOYFRIEND BECOME A GOOD HUSBAND?

When a woman is already considering a serious relationship leading to marriage, she also needs to consider how to figure out whether her boyfriend will become a good husband.
When you think about your boyfriend, do you see him as a good husband in case you'll get married to him?
If you're a woman who may have this very important issue in life on how to tell if your boyfriend will make a good husband then you need to study and observe his personality traits. From Bobby Iyke Joe

This is something worth thinking about especially if you're a marriage minded single who wants to have a serious and lasting relationship.
There are men who are only good in making an instant decision to make that longest walk down the aisle but aren't committed towards a lifelong relationship.
If you're a woman who is ready to settle down, you need to determine if your boyfriend is a helpmate before you'll invest too much time, dedication and effort in the relationship.
Look for important signs that will suggest whether your boyfriend shall one day really want to become your other half.
Is he the one??
You may be able to determine by the help of the following guideline below:

1.) Observe how your boyfriend behaves and looks at other women.
If he's not going to stop staring at them when you're still dating, chances are, he's not going to stop even when you're married.
Study how he treats you when you go out in public places because this will be one of the signs that may lead you to think whether he'll be a good husband.
Faithfulness and honesty are the most important components in being a good husband.

2.) Consider how he talks about the future.
If your boyfriend is ready and open to a deeper commitment then he will habitually use phrases like "we can do it", "our lives together", "we will think about it" or "for us." Generally, a man who is single-minded will talk more often about the future in terms of himself in it only.
This will give you an indication concerning where his primary focus is, so be mindful when the two of you are having a serious conversation with regards to family life or about the future.
You need to consider these vital things like whether both of you plan to have kids or not. This is an important aspect to take into account and you should know if he really wants to have kids or not.
Observe how he treats children or his own if he has any from a previous relationship.
Your boyfriend should be able to include you in his future plans and is deeply interested and excited on how you'll live your lives together as a couple.

3.) Be mindful of how your boyfriend tries to make you happy by getting rid some aspects of his behavior that you don't agree with.
If he knows that you don't want to be with a man who allows himself to be controlled by alcohol or drug addiction then he should stop drinking or taking drugs.
If you think that the manner of conducting oneself is a very important aspect to become a good hubby then he should know how to respect your beliefs and values.
If he is totally willing to give up his bad habits for the betterment of your relationship then this is a positive sign that he will become a good husband.

4.) Observe your man when you're around with your male friends or co-workers.
Does he talk negatively about them in an angry manner?
If he does then your man could easily get jealous that will make your relationship difficult to handle especially when he'll become your husband.
Study how he conducts himself when he is with his friends too.
Does he call your name often to ask you to get his friends something to drink or get him something that he immediately need while he's with them?
If your boyfriend is doing this to you then he might be showing to his friends that he can easily control you.
A good husband will not treat his wife like a servant.
He will always respect, care and lend a helping to his wife.

5.) Notice how your boyfriend acts when he is angry or upset.
If he can't control his temper and is able to hurt you emotionally, mentally and physically then there is a big possibility that he will continue to do this and may hurt you even more when you'll get married.
A good husband will try his best to make himself calm in times of challenges and difficulties in life in order for your relationship to work well.
It is normal that there are certain times when couples disagree but not to the point that they constantly yell at each other, keep bringing up past mistakes that had nothing to do with the present argument and end up hurting the other partner physically.
An abusive boyfriend will never become a good husband.
A man can still argue by simply presenting his side of the issue in an adult way and manner.

6.) Pay attention on how your guy spends his money.
Men who spend money impulsively could be very vulnerable at cheating on their girlfriends. This may not true to all but just look for important signs that tell you that he is responsible with his money like paying his bills on time.
While still single, you need to be more observant of your partner.
He will only become a good husband if he knows how to spend his money wisely and responsibly.
You need to consider that in the first year of marriage, there will be a big possibility that you'll stay at home for awhile to take care of your first born.
A stingy boyfriend may also not be the type of man whom you'll want to become your husband since he could treat you like a child and not his equal partner in life.
So is he the sharing type?
A good partner should know how to share what he has so try to look for clues that will tell you that he is capable of sharing his blessings like giving gifts during important occasions and events in life.
If your boyfriend keeps his money greedily like Scrooge or spends it only for himself then this is a bad sign.

7.) Study the way your boyfriend introduces you to other people.
Has he introduced you to all the important people in his life?
Men often refrain or wouldn't even mind with these important introductions if they aren't serious and committed to the women they are with.
If he acts proud, excited and happy to introduce you to his family, close friends and other people in his life then this could be one sign that he'll be a good husband because he honors you.

8.) Examine how your boyfriend communicates and shares his feelings towards you.
There may be times that your boyfriend will have a lesser time in communicating his feelings that may cause you to feel unappreciated, disliked and unloved.
He should know how to open up his feelings and emotions to make the relationship more stronger.
You can also determine if your boyfriend shall become a good husband if he knows how to make you feel special and appreciated by his actions and by giving you those simple words of appreciation.

9.) Be mindful whether your boyfriend is the kind of person who usually offers a helping hand. This shows that he really cares for you.
When your man knows that you are tired or not feeling well, he should be considerate and show some compassion by doing those things or chores so that you can rest for awhile.
A good husband knows how to surprise his wife with her favorite flowers, meal or by just being there to help her because these little things can make all the difference in the world to a wife.

10.) Take note if your boyfriend is interested to listen to the things that you wish him to hear. Women often tend to hold things inside but if your man is caring and loving enough then he can distinguish that there is something wrong even when you say that there isn't.
He pays special attention to everything that will bring happiness to both of you.

11.) Observe the manner of your boyfriend when he interacts with his own mother.
If he doesn't respect her in any way then he may not likely respect you at all when you'll become his wife.
Watch how your boyfriend treats his family especially the women because this is an indication how he will treat you and also the women in your family.
If your guy is a mama' s boy then you may see him devote an extra amount of time only to his mother.
This could also mean that even if he's already married to you, he'll still cling to his mother more often for advice, affection and care that could annoy or upset you.

12.) Observe how he enjoys his time when spending it with you.
If he loves to spend time with you by going out or just talking anything under the sun then this is a positive sign that he will be a good husband and you'll be happy in each another's company especially if both of you have enough things in common.
This is an important factor to consider because once you're married, the challenges of a new relationship can be overwhelming.
Both of you need to adjust with what's going on in your life like careers, kids, basic needs, bills, etc.
If both of you know how to enjoy spending time together then you'll have something to fall back on in maintaining a harmonious and loving relationship.

Tips & Warnings:
Your boyfriend should know how to value you as the most special person in his life and gives importance to your relationship.
If your man is an optimist, there is a very good chance that he'll become a good husband because he can inspire you to achieve your goals and dreams in life.

15/06/2020

10 WAYS TO MAKE A TRUE LOVE

1. Leave the past in the past
When you meet someone new, leave any negative feelings or past heartbreaks just where they should be—in the past.

2. You won’t meet someone new in your living room Well, maybe a cute guy will deliver your new sofa, but chances are you’re going to meet someone by getting out there and trying new things—online dating, taking a class, etc. Tell everyone, especially your married friends, that you’re looking to meet someone and ALWAYS go to parties. Because you truly never know who you’ll meet.

3. Give the guy a chance
When you were 20 your list was “he must be tall, dark and handsome.” Try going against type. It just might be a perfect fit.

4. Look at blind dates like a first date
Two of the authors of our book met their husbands on blind dates, and you can too! If you’re not sure you want to sit in a noisy restaurant, go out and do something fun. One of our School Of True Love went to a baseball game, and she and her date each brought a friend. They had a blast and got married one year later.

5. Time is on your side
Take your time in getting to know your guy and don’t feel in a rush to meet his children or have him meet yours. It starts with the two of you. Make sure this is someone you want in your life.

6. Isn’t it romantic?
Just because you’re meeting the love of your life later in life doesn’t mean you can’t still have passionate, amazing s*x! The School Of True Love say “Go for it!”

7. Someone to come home to
When you’re ready to move in together you will discover how wonderful it is to come home to the one you love. Be prepared for some give and take—for example, over which of each others’ belongings stay or go.

8. What’s up with a pre-nup?
Remember that a pre-nup isn’t because you think your marriage isn’t going to work—it’s so you get to decide how your assets and everything you’ve worked for can be protected.

9. Your wedding, your way
Now you’re in love and it’s time to have your wedding exactly how you want it. The School Of True Love have had all kinds of weddings! Remember it is all about you and the man of your dreams. Whatever you want is the way to go.

10. Happily ever after can happen to you
Remember what the School Of True Love always say: “It’s never too late to find true love. We did, and you can too!’

Bobby Iyke Joe

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