24/05/2026
“I had this mate and I used to pretty much idolise him. I thought, oh man, if I had his life, everything would be sweet and he just looked at me and said, bro, what are you doing?...
It was the first time I’d ever been called out on my behaviour and drinking. I remember getting up from the table and we’d been drinking all day and evening, but I was stone-cold sober. He saved my life.
Alcoholism is a disease and I used to think that our AA co-founders made that up just to make me feel good about myself, but it’s legit.
Alcoholism wants to isolate and keep you behind the lounge curtains drinking by yourself.
The mind will say, oh no, I don’t need to go to AA, I don’t need those people. I got it, I don’t have to do the steps and all that sort of stuff. I’ve just kept going back, just don’t drink and go to meetings.
At the end of my drinking I was home by myself, thinking I was good for nothing, good for nobody.
Now I have a wonderful group of friends that I can share experiences with. We do heaps of stuff because I couldn’t see the point of getting sober and being miserable.
When I was drinking I’d walk down the main street and pretend I didn’t see you and cross over. Now, through cleaning up my past, I’m free to walk the main street and walk tall. I’ve got my dignity back. That’s been the biggest gift”.
- AA member
------------------------
Struggling with alcohol or drugs can feel overwhelming but help is out there 💙
Free support is available across the country, from local community services and one on one support to peer groups like AA.
Need to talk now? The Alcohol and Drug Helpline is available 24/7:
📞 0800 787 797 | 💬 text 8681
Find more support options: healthnz.govt.nz/alcohol-and-drug-services