01/10/2026
Today, October 1, I remember and celebrate my brother B**g—not only for the public service he gave, but more importantly, for the person he was to our family.
Even as a child, B**g already had the qualities of a leader. He was disciplined, organized, and very particular about the things he cared about. He also had many good friends, and he was someone people genuinely enjoyed being around.
As he grew older, some things never changed. He was meticulous about his videos, magazines, and other things he valued. He liked keeping things in order and had his own way of doing things. But when it came to clothes, he was very simple. Madalas, pantalon na maraming pockets ang suot niya 'pag pumapasok.
B**g was quiet and soft-spoken, but he had a good sense of humor. He loved music and had a band with three others. He enjoyed performing and, of course, making people laugh. Minsan nga lang, corny ng jokes niya. But that was B**g.
He was also a good public speaker. He may have been quiet in his everyday life, but when he had something to say, he knew how to say it.
Even with food, B**g had his own way. Mapili siya sa pagkain and would often have his own food. These might seem like small details, but these are the things that make someone memorable. The little things that were simply B**g.
He studied and lived in the United States, but remained grounded and simple in the way he lived and dealt with people. He eventually devoted himself to public service, serving the people of Olongapo and Zambales.
But beyond everything he accomplished, B**g was a father and a brother. He was especially devoted to his only child, Jane, and his love for her was something everyone close to him could see.
For me, though, B**g will always be my brother first.
I remember the music, the jokes, his particular ways, the good friends he made, and all the years we shared as a family. These are the memories I hold on to.
Happy 79th birthday in heaven, B**g.
You are remembered, you are missed, and you will always be my brother.
