30/09/2013
You have to put in the time, the energy, and the effort to see great results in your marriage, in your children, in your body, and at your place of work.
If you want a great marriage, you may have to:
Have a weekly date night. Do something with your spouse that you don’t like. For men, it may be seeing a chick flick, washing dishes or doing the laundry, or spending time on her favorite hobby. For women, it may be going to the newest action movie, our spending time with him on his favorite hobby, or spending time with him watching his favorite sport. Compliment each other. Do small acts of kindness.
If you want great children, you will have to:
Attend their school activities. Go to their play, baseball game, or band concert. Have a date night. Your children are longing for time with their mommy or daddy. Pick a night and take out just one child at a time. Focus on them and give them your undivided attention. Learn about their interests. When they know you care about what they care about, it means the world to them. Get to know their friends.
If you want a healthy body, you will have to:
Learn to control your eating. Exercise regularly. Adjust your sleep schedule. Love yourself!
If you want a job that you can wake up to every morning, you will have to:
Work on solving the problems instead of quitting. If you focus on what you can't control, you'll allow misery to set in, affect the morale of coworkers, and eventually, you will lose your job. If you focus on the positive factors, instead, you'll succeed. And who knows, maybe you will see things differently and come to love the job you have.
When you start applying these and other action steps into your life, the grass on your side of the fence will start to change. You’ll see weeds start to whither and die. New, beautiful flowers sprouting, and the grass becoming greener. Yes, it will take time and energy. But it’s time and the energy that is well worth it. Your grass (life) will become much more appealing. Your neighbor’s and friends grass will no longer be as alluring. Take the steps today to water, fertilize, and care for your own grass. The dividends you’ll reap will be HUGE and it will be more than worth your time, energy and effort.