12/12/2025
NEW VIDEO: My Journey as a Melancholy in Affection ✨
This is the part of my temperament where I struggled the most…
and for a long time, I didn’t understand why.
Growing up, I felt misunderstood, unseen, and emotionally unprotected.
My pain came out as anger, withdrawal, and deep insecurity.
I learned to survive by building walls, shutting down, and loving from a distance.
As a Melancholy in Affection, I loved quietly but fearfully…
deeply but guarded…
sincerely but with the constant expectation of rejection.
I didn’t know that my temperament — the way God designed me — was crying out for healing.
I didn’t know that God would one day touch the very places I tried to hide.
Today, through God’s grace and understanding my temperament, I love completely differently:
I love from identity now, not insecurity.
I love from freedom, not fear.
I love from healing, not wounds.
I receive love without shutting down.
I give love without overthinking.
I trust more. I soften quicker. I stay instead of running.
That transformation only came from Jesus and from learning how my temperament works in Inclusion, Control, and Affection.
If you’ve ever struggled to feel emotionally safe…
If you’ve ever loved from fear…
If you’ve ever felt misunderstood in your relationships…
I want you to know this:
You are not broken.
You are designed.
And God wants to heal the wounded parts of your heart.
In my new video, I share my full story — the pain, the healing, the growth, and the freedom God has brought into my life.
Message me if you want to begin your own temperament journey.
Take the Temperament Intake to understand how God uniquely made you.
I’m here for you.
And I pray this message brings healing to someone who has been carrying their pain alone.
Faithfully Connected Christian Counseling & Coaching
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