08/03/2026
If you're wondering if this is how they play all the time, the answer would be no. In fact, it's quite rare, which is why I was so excited that I got it on video!!! Not seen in the video is how they built the magnet tiles house together, starting with just one child creating the middle, to then others joining and putting their pieces together. They continued adding and taking away pieces, playing for about 40 minutes, if not more!
Although, at the beginning of the year, the children would be playing in different areas, doing their own thing, and would get quite defensive when someone would get in their space.
While moving through the stages of play is a completely natural part of child development, children don't automatically know how to bridge those gaps on their own. That’s where my job as the teacher comes in, to give them the proper tools and language to navigate social play while keeping peace in the classroom.
It took a lot of modeling from me to show them that playing together can also be fun, sometimes more fun than playing alone. I would purposely invite kids to come build, color, or pretend with me so that they can see what it looks like. I would say inviting or affirming words such as:
💬 "Can someone help me make this tower taller?"
💬 "Would you like to help me make the other side of this house?"
💬 "Do you want to be the dog and I'll be the cat?"
💬 "Did you do that? That was a good idea!"
💬 "Thanks for letting me play with you."
💬 "It's so fun when we're playing together!"
Little by little, day by day, those modeled scripts became their words. Watching them step into cooperative play on their own has been magic, and I’m so grateful I get to be here to witness it.