07/03/2026
As America approaches its 250th birthday, I find myself thinking a lot about what it means to love our country. At a time when pride in being American has fallen to a record low, it's worth asking what it means to be patriotic.
Patriotism has never meant pretending America is perfect. Nor has it ever meant blind loyalty to those in power. It has always meant ownership: the belief that this country is yours to improve, and yours to protect, even when it falls short of its ideals.
Frederick Douglass understood this better than anyone. His speech, “What to the Slave Is the Fourth of July?“ remains one of the most devastating indictments of America ever delivered. Yet Douglass later recruited Black men—including his own sons—to fight for the Union during the Civil War.
I learned my own version of patriotism in uniform as well. I deployed to Baghdad with the 82nd Airborne in 2003 and came home having lost 19 men. The war was a strategic failure. But the paratroopers and Iraqis who worked alongside us in 130 degree heat, risking everything for freedoms they had never known, changed how I understood my own obligations. If they were willing to risk everything for the future of their country, I had no excuse not to do the same for mine.
That conviction eventually led me from military service to Congress, where I tried to help America live up more fully to its ideals.
It’s easy to be disillusioned by a country that has failed and fails so many of its citizens. But the answer is not disengagement or despair. We must be active participants in our democracy. The country you want exists in proportion to the work you put into building it. Now is the time to take ownership of our problems and invest in our solutions.
The flag doesn't belong to one party. It belongs to all of us. What we do with it is up to us.
I write about this in my latest substack. Read here:
https://www.facebook.com/share/18xeWaK6Sf/?mibextid=wwXIfr
Patriotism has never meant pretending America is perfect. It has always meant believing the country is yours to improve.