12/14/2024
What's on my mind...
When you die, someone actually calls you into work, school, appts, etc, etc. DEAD...
And then everything is someone else's problem...
And my real issues with all that are these:
Your work never cared that much, they already posted your job ... probably before looking at your ins, and even before notifying coworkers, probably before even deciding what the appropriate sympathy gift is...
Your kids and family will have one of the worst days of their life... maybe forever depending on the circumstances... some s**t you can't unlive, unwitness, forget... trust me.. I know.
Everything will have tobe done and fast and fueled bye emotions, confusion, usually shock and no real understanding not at first, at first its painful for those left....
And if you, the dead one, didn't leave any directions, any last wishes , any anything... you've set your people and family up for failure and years of hurt... on top of just swallowing the info and everything that has to and does happen ....
It's now someone else's problem... don't be part of the probelms... give your people instructions, protect your last wishes and how you want things done... because while you won't care anymore someone else will and it is a heavy , heavy heartache to carry already... 💔
Be part of your own solution, if not for you... for those you love. Don't encourage the trauma , be prepared and be sure...after all it was your life... make sure you have a say in how it ends and what you want.
