04/20/2026
To a child, it doesn’t matter who you are, it matters what actions you take. Everyone can be a hero to a child. The number one form of child abuse prevention is starting a dialogue, so speak up and speak out!
Here are a few easy tips you can start today to help keep children safe and educated:
MY BODY IS MY BODY
Every child has the right to tell anyone “No" and refuse unwanted or uncomfortable affection. A child should never be forced to hug, give affection, or sit on a lap.
SAFETY NETWORK
Children need a network of safe adults whom they can talk to if they are feeling uncomfortable, worried, or scared. Help them identify five safe adults who they can turn to if they need help.
PRIVATE PARTS
Explain that private parts are those that are covered by their swimsuit, and it is not ok for someone to touch, look at, or take photos of their private parts. Likewise, a child should not be asked to touch another person's private parts.
SECRETS VS. SURPRISES
Surprises can be fun and make people happy, like giving a present. Secrets, however, can be hurtful. Teach kids that adults should not ask children to keep secrets and the child should tell someone right away.
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