06/17/2026
I don’t know why this is coming up for me.”
It’s something many people say in therapy when emotions, memories, or reactions seem to appear out of nowhere.
In this video, Alessandra (“Sasa”) explores why these experiences may not be as random as they seem. Often, what surfaces in the present is connected to something deeper—an unmet need, a past experience, a current stressor, or a part of ourselves asking for attention.
Rather than judging these moments or pushing them away, therapy creates space to become curious about them. Sometimes the question isn’t “Why is this happening?” but “What might this be trying to tell me?”
Watch as Sasa shares why self-compassion and curiosity can be powerful tools for understanding ourselves more deeply.