06/10/2026
As two high-profile cases involving youth violence continue to dominate headlines, much of the conversation has focused on self-defense claims, bullying allegations, and sentencing outcomes.
Those conversations matter.
But I find myself asking a different question:
What kind of environments are we creating when young people believe they have to go to these extremes to protect themselves in the first place?
The common response is often, "Why didn't they report it?"
But many young people do report concerns.
The real question is whether they believe reporting will actually change anything.
Young people are constantly assessing:
- Will an adult take me seriously?
- Will I be protected?
- Will the situation improve?
- Will nothing happen?
When trust in those systems breaks down, some young people begin looking for their own solutions. That might look like withdrawal, avoidance, aggression, carrying weapons, or other attempts to create a sense of safety and control.
None of that excuses violence.
But if our only focus is what happened in a single moment, we miss the opportunity to examine everything that happened before it.
Every incident of youth violence should prompt us to ask not only what decision a young person made, but what conditions existed that made that decision feel necessary in the first place.
The hardest conversations are rarely about individual behavior.
They're about the environments, relationships, and systems that shape it.