07/22/2026
Let's talk about it.
The substance abuse crisis in Devils Lake doesn't just affect our cityāit affects all of Ramsey County. It's heartbreaking, and it's frightening.
For years, we've relied on a system that often waits until someone commits a crime before they can receive meaningful help. Too many people who desperately need treatment first end up in jail because there are so few options available when they are in the middle of a crisis.
I believe our community needs to have a serious conversation about bringing detox services back. A medically supervised detox facility could give families somewhere to turn before a situation reaches the point where law enforcement has to get involved. It would provide a safe environment for people to sober up, receive medical care, and then transition into treatment to address the underlying causes of their addiction.
The staff at the Lake Region Correctional Facility have made great strides in helping people who come through their doors, and they deserve credit for that. But jail should not have to become the primary gateway to treatment. Whenever possible, intervention before an arrest is a better outcome for everyone involved.
The reality is that addiction is rarely the root problem. More often, it is a symptom of something much deeperātrauma, grief, mental health struggles, or overwhelming life circumstances. People often turn to alcohol or drugs in an attempt to numb emotional pain. That doesn't excuse harmful behavior, but it does remind us that recovery requires treating the whole person, not just the addiction.
Addiction doesn't care about your social status, your political affiliation, your income, or your upbringing. It can impact any family. Some families simply hide it better than others.
I'm sharing this because my own family has become the subject of gossip, speculation, and social media conversations. Rather than let others tell our story, I want to speak honestly.
My brother-in-law, Roger, is an alcoholic. This has been a battle for many years. Like so many people living with addiction, there have been periods of recovery and periods of relapse. Roger's full story isn't mine to tell, but I will say this: the trauma he has endured throughout his life is heartbreaking.
This summer, my family watched him at his absolute lowest. We saw a man who wasn't himself. His words and actions terrified all of us because we genuinely feared for his safety. We tried everything we could to help him, but you cannot reason with someone who is deep in the grip of addiction. We couldn't get him to sober up long enough to have the conversations that needed to happen.
Eventually, he ended up in jail. While none of us wanted that outcome, it became the safest place for him at that moment because there were no other realistic options available.
As a family, we wanted to handle this privately. Unfortunately, that wasn't possible once the rumors and gossip started circulating.
Living through this has only strengthened my belief that our community needs more resources. I truly believe that if detox services had been available when Roger was in crisis, things may have unfolded very differently. I know we are far from the only family that has experienced this. Many families in our community have lived this nightmare, are living it today, or will face it in the future.
This isn't about making excuses or avoiding accountability. People are responsible for their actions. But accountability and compassion can exist together. We should be asking ourselves whether we are giving families every possible opportunity to get their loved ones help before a crisis turns into a criminal case.
I hope this is the last time I have to publicly address my family's situation.
To everyone who has reached out with genuine concern, support, and encouragement, thank you. Your kindness has meant more than you know.
And to those who chose compassion over judgment and stood up for Roger while he was at his lowest, thank you. Those are the kinds of people who make our community stronger.