Englewood Cliffs Senior Citizens

Englewood Cliffs Senior Citizens The Englewood Cliffs Senior Club is open to residents of Englewood Cliffs who are 55 years or older. The meetings are 2nd Monday each month 2:00 PM

05/12/2026

The shelter labeled him “unadoptable” and scheduled him for euthanasia at 8 a.m.

At 7:51, the black Labrador reached through the kennel bars and gently touched a little girl’s face.

She hadn’t spoken in three years.

In the fall of 2021, a county shelter in central Pennsylvania received a black Labrador mix for the fourth time.

He was big for a Lab.

Close to eighty pounds.

Older too — around seven years old.

Gray had already started spreading across his muzzle, and his body carried the marks of a difficult life.

One ear was permanently torn down the middle.

A faded scar stretched across his chest beneath his black fur.

His tail had healed crooked from an old untreated break.

And one cloudy eye showed signs of trauma veterinarians believed had never been properly cared for.

The notes from previous adopters told the same story again and again.

“Too intimidating.”
“Doesn’t seem friendly.”
“Stares too much.”
“Doesn’t connect with visitors.”
“Makes people uncomfortable.”

One adopter even wrote:

“He looks at people like he’s trying to figure something out.”

By the fourth return, shelter staff quietly stopped taking photos for adoption listings.

They stopped decorating his kennel.

Stopped expecting anyone to choose him.

His kennel card simply read:

Black Labrador mix. Male. Approx. 7 yrs.
Fourth return.
Behavior concerns: anxious around strangers, kennel reactive.
Low adoption probability.

At the bottom, written in red marker:

Scheduled EU — 11/14 — 8:00 A.M.

He had nine days left.

During that time, one longtime volunteer began writing unusual observations about him in a personal notebook.

Her name was Denise.

Fifty-eight years old.

Seven years volunteering at the shelter.

One of her notes later read:

“He never turns toward the back wall. Every day he sits at the front of the kennel watching people pass by. No barking. No growling. Just watching. Most dogs shut down after a while in here. He doesn’t. He looks at every face like he’s waiting for someone.”

Then November 14 arrived.

At 7:30 that morning, a man entered the shelter with his nine-year-old daughter.

They weren’t there to adopt a dog.

His elderly beagle had recently passed away, and he only planned to donate leftover food, blankets, and unopened medication.

A quick errand.

Nothing more.

His daughter wasn’t even supposed to come with him.

School had been closed for staff training, and he couldn’t find childcare.

So she quietly followed beside him carrying a small whiteboard in her backpack.

The little girl had not spoken in three years.

At six years old, she had witnessed a traumatic domestic incident involving a former family member.

Afterward, she developed severe selective mutism.

Not stubbornness.

Not refusal.

She physically could not speak.

Years of therapy followed.

Speech specialists.

Trauma counseling.

Play therapy.

Evaluations.

Nothing changed.

She communicated through gestures, written notes, and the whiteboard she carried everywhere.

For 1,096 days, her father had not heard her voice.

Not a laugh.

Not a whisper.

Nothing.

The father dropped off the donation box and turned toward the exit.

But halfway down the hallway, he realized his daughter had stopped walking.

She stood silently in front of the last kennel in the intake row.

Inside sat the black Labrador.

The dog pressed himself close to the kennel door, watching her carefully with his cloudy eye.

Still.

Silent.

Focused completely on her face.

Her father softly called her name.

She didn’t move.

Then the dog did something staff members said he had never done before.

Slowly, he stood up.

Walked to the gate.

And carefully pushed one paw through the bars.

Not scratching.

Not lunging.

Just reaching toward her.

The little girl stepped closer.

The dog gently rested his paw against her cheek.

And left it there.

Denise stood only a few feet away watching the entire moment unfold.

Later she said:

“I’ve worked around anxious dogs for years. I’ve seen fear, aggression, panic, shutdowns. But I’ve never seen a dog reach through kennel bars just to gently touch someone’s face. It was like he recognized something in her.”

The little girl slowly lifted her hand and placed it against his paw.

Then something happened nobody in that hallway expected.

She spoke.

One word.

Small.

Hoarse.

Unused for years.

So soft her father thought he imagined it.

She whispered:

“Him.”

Her father froze.

Denise froze.

Even the receptionist later said the entire hallway went silent.

Then the father looked at his daughter.

And at the red euthanasia notice attached to the kennel.

7:51 a.m.

Nine minutes before the scheduled procedure.

He adopted the dog immediately.

The shelter waived every fee.

Denise personally walked the Labrador out to the car while openly crying.

She later said:

“That dog never stopped looking at the little girl. It was like he had already decided she belonged with him.”

That afternoon, the little girl chose his name herself.

She carefully wrote it across her whiteboard:

Shadow.

It was the first non-essential word she had willingly written in years.

On the drive home, she spoke again.

Her second word in three years.

“Mine.”

Within days, her father began hearing quiet whispers coming from her bedroom.

She was reading aloud to the dog while Shadow lay on the floor beside her bed listening.

Weeks later, she started verbally answering simple questions.

Short sentences at first.

Only at home.

Only with her father.

But steadily improving.

Her speech therapist later described it as the most sudden emotional breakthrough of her entire career.

When asked why she finally spoke, the little girl quietly answered:

“He looked at me like I wasn’t broken.”

The therapist later wrote:

“The dog did not heal her trauma. He simply made her feel seen again. Apparently, that mattered more than anything else we tried.”

The little girl is twelve now.

She speaks normally.

She still struggles with anxiety sometimes.

Still attends therapy.

But she laughs now.

Reads out loud in school.

Has friends.

And every night, Shadow sleeps across her bedroom doorway facing outward, like he’s still protecting something precious.

He has never shown aggression toward anyone.

Not once.

The shelter volunteer still visits every year on his adoption anniversary, bringing treats and tennis balls.

She says he still watches the shelter doors the same way he used to from inside the kennel.

Still studying every face carefully.

Still searching for someone.

The difference now is…

he already found her. ❤️

05/12/2026
At our April meeting we experienced Creative on Clay. We had instructions on how to take a ball of clay and make a rose....
05/12/2026

At our April meeting we experienced Creative on Clay. We had instructions on how to take a ball of clay and make a rose. We then each painted our flower to take home. It was a fun activity.

On March 25 2026 our seniors sent to the Culinary Institute of Americaand had a delish French meal at the Bocuse Restaur...
05/02/2026

On March 25 2026 our seniors sent to the Culinary Institute of Americaand had a delish French meal at the Bocuse Restaurant. Started with lobster and pumpkin chowder, followed by either Black Sea Bass or Beef Strip steak, and for desert Crème Brûlée.
After dinner we returned to our bus and left for The Vanderbilt Mansion Historic Site.

On Noverber 11th, the Senior Citizens presented a wreath at The Veterans And Falken Hereis Park.  Vietnam Veteran , Timo...
12/27/2025

On Noverber 11th, the Senior Citizens presented a wreath at The Veterans And Falken Hereis Park. Vietnam Veteran , Timothy O’Shea, presented our wreath. Rev Claude Hubbard gave the Invocation, remarks, and benediction. The opening greeting. Was by Mayor Mark Park. The Pledge of Allegiance recited by all and the ECPD played The Star Spangled Banner.
Rev Hubbard spoke of his service in the Marine Corps.

On December 3rd, we attended our Holiday Luncheon at Villa Amalfi 794 Palisade Avenue Cliffside Park. We were joined by ...
12/27/2025

On December 3rd, we attended our Holiday Luncheon at Villa Amalfi 794 Palisade Avenue Cliffside Park. We were joined by Mayor Mark Park and his wife Katie. Mayot Park swore in officers for the next year. President, Giovanna Mungioli; 1st Vice President, Maria Conway; 2nd Vice President, Fran Correa Mladjenovic; Treasurer, Carolina Topolewski; Secretary, Eileen Marelic; House Manager, Lucy Ragasa; Assustant House Manager, Shiranee DeThabrew; Facebook Manager & Photographer, Mary O’Shea. Exercise Leader,Liz Gioffree and Membership and Publicity were unable to attend.
Giovanna presented Mary O’Shea with a gift on behalf of the entire membership for her outstanding leadership as she steps down as President. Members received beautiful poinsettias to decorated their homes for the holidays.

On November  13th, we went.  to The Brownstone in Elmwood Park for a lovely luncheon.  the entertainment was music for l...
12/27/2025

On November 13th, we went. to The Brownstone in Elmwood Park for a lovely luncheon. the entertainment was music for listening and dancing by the Joe Zisa Band.The theme was “Moments to Remember”

12/18/2025

The Englewood Cliffs Seniors Newsletter

January 2026

Vol 154

🎉 Happy New Year… Welcome to 2026 - Englewood Cliffs Seniors! 🎊

Hi! Welcome to a great New Year filled with promise and new life adventures to enjoy!

Especially:

1 – New Years Day / National Bloody Mary Day / Polar Bear Plunge Day

2 – Motivation & Inspiration

12 – National Clean Your Desk Day

13 – Korean American Day

15 – Bagel Day

21 – Bakers-Crafters-Makers Day

27 – Chocolate Cake Day

January is …

Be Kind to Food Servers Month

Dry January

Financial Wellness Month

Get Organized Month

Hot Tea Month – We’ll share Tea at our meeting

“Thank you” Month

NEXT MEETINGS :

7 Bayview Ave

Monday, January 12thth at 2pm

Dues are Due – no later than Jan. 31st for 2026

Dues for 2026 will be $15 per person under 90 years old (Over 90, no dues)

Please make check payable to Englewood Cliffs Seniors and give to Giovanna or mail to Giovanna Mungioli, 42 Mercer Avenue.

TRACKING YOUR HEALTH

· A Nurse from Mid Bergen Regional Health Commission will join us before the meeting from 1:00-2:00pm for Blood Pressure Screening and to answer general medical questions.

· Nurse may also be able to provide diabetes and cholesterol testing.

CLUB NEWS/Recap of last meeting/month

- Our joyful Holiday Luncheon was on Wed., December 3, 2025 at Villa Amalfi featuring:

o A delicious lunch

o Mary shared with the members that Ken Kubicki, 90, esteemed Past President and President Emeritus had sadly passed away.

o Mayor Mark Park swore in the 2026 Englewood Cliffs Board:

Giovanna Mungioli, President

Maria Conway, 1st VP

Fran Correa-Mladjenovic, 2nd VP

Carolina Topolewski, Treasurer

Eileen Marelic, Secretary

Lucy Ragasa, House Manager

Shiranee DeThabrew, Assistant House Manager

Liz Gioffre, Exercise Lead

Martin Geiger, Membership and Publicity

Mary O’Shea, Facebook Manager & Photographer

o Giovanna presented Mary O’Shea with a gift, on behalf of the entire membership, as a token of appreciation for her outstanding leadership as she steps down as President

o Members received beautiful Poinsettias to decorate their homes for the holidays

CLUB MEETING GUESTS

Suggestions are always welcomed.

Please provide suggestions to Maria Conway

January - Tae Lee will deliver a medical topic – New year, new you!

February - Maria Conway will lead a Valentine’s art project

March - Paul Mladjenovic will visit to enlighten us about financial matters.

April - "Creating with Clay" presenter will give those who wish to participate an opportunity to work on a clay project. Details to follow.

May – Nonagenarian (90 years old and above) Celebration – Please give Giovanna or Maria your birthdate as we have applications without birthdates and do not want to miss anyone!

June – Singer Dan Yates will entertain us

STAYING ACTIVE

· Chair Exercise … Update:

First and Last Mondays of the month (2 classes per month) from 1:00 PM to 2:00 PM in the Senior Building, 7 West Bayview Avenue. No class on Meeting days.

Next classes: Jan 5th and Jan 26th

· Art Sessions for the EC Senior Citizens
Every Thursday from 9:00 am - 1:00 pm
The EC Community Building
This Art Session will be opened to all Englewood Cliffs Seniors. Please come and enjoy Drawing, Painting at your own pace and at leisure.
Bring your own easel and supplies (Sketch books, Pencils, Brushes, Paint, etc)
Contact: Lidaenis Ferro: 201-602-3342 or
Ina Carson: 201 638-0323

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TRIPS

· Payment: checks or cash, must be received one month prior to trip. Checks will be cashed when received.

· Reserve your spot by calling Giovanna at 201 944 6954.

· Make checks payable to Englewood Cliffs Seniors

· Send check to Giovanna Mungioli, 42 Mercer Avenue, Englewood Cliffs, NJ 07632

· Parking is available to the Seniors courtesy of the Bicycle Club, in their lot – kindly park there. It is across the street from the Bike.

March 25th … Bus leaves 9:00am, back by 6:00pm

Culinary Institute of America/ Vanderbilt Mansion Tour

Hyde Park, NY

The Bocuse Restaurant French Restaurant

Choice of Entrée must be given to Giovanna by February 14th

Menu:

First course: Salmon and lobster souffle' (Le souffle de langouste et saumon) with lobster, shrimp, mussel, bay scallop, clams, crustaceans bisque

Entrée : Choice of

- Black Sea Bass,(Le Bar Noir) cauliflower, mushroom, bok choy, rice, miso-ginger sauce OR

- Beef Strip Loin, (Le contre-filet grille') parsnip puree, cipollini onion, carrot, beet, bearnaise sauce

Dessert: Coconut Mousse containing passion fruit curd, confit pineapple, vanilla pate' sucree, vanilla whipped ganache, meringue and coconut lime sorbet

Coffee, Tea or Iced Tea is included.

All other drinks must be paid by credit card. No cash will be accepted.

Mansion Tour:

After Lunch, we will tour The Vanderbilt Mansion – This historic 54 room mansion was once owned by Frederick William Vanderbilt. We will learn about the history, architecture, interior design and family/social customs of the time.

Pricing for the Culinary Institute and Mansion Tour:

Members: $75

Non-Members $85

April 22, 2026 … Bus leaves at 12:30pm from 482 Hudson Terrace

Broadway show: Buena Vista Social Club

The Buena Vista Social Club musical is a Broadway show inspired by the Grammy-winning album and documentary, telling the story of the legendary Cuban musicians.

It uses a time-leaping narrative to show the musicians' lives both in the 1950s and during the 1996 recording of the album, exploring their personal struggles and the impact of the Cuban Revolution.

The show features the original music from the album performed live by an onstage band, celebrating Cuban culture, community, and the resilience of the artists.

Story: The musical alternates between the 1950s and 1996, following the stories of musicians like Omara Portuondo as they navigate personal challenges and political upheaval.

Music: The show features the music of the Buena Vista Social Club, performed live in Spanish by an onstage Afro-Cuban band.

Ticket Price:

$120 Members

$129 Non-Members

First Come, First Served… only 40 tickets

June 25, 2026 … Bus leaves at 9:30am from 482 Hudson Terrace

Tropicana Casino, Atlantic City

Neil Diamond performance

$25 Slot play and ticket to show included in trip price

Please give your Rewards # to Giovanna by May 15th

Ticket prices:

Members: $80

Non-Members $90

JANUARY BIRTHDAYS

Birthstone: Garnet 💎

3 Sudha Munver

4 Margo Moss

10 Janet Reduce

14 Lidaenis Ferro

17 Vincent Gioffre

17 Gail Ehrenberg

27 Wilma Geyer

29 Rose Chin

Wishing the January Babies a very Happy Birthday! 🎉

Wishing you and yours a Happy & Healthy 2026!

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Mary O’Shea’s Letter to the Englewood Cliffs Seniors Club Membership:

Dear Fellow Senior,

It has been my pleasure to serve on the Senior Board for over 15+ years, the last 10+ as President. I want to take this opportunity to thank all those who helped me during my time as President of our club. First of all, the past Presidents, the late Andy Cincotta and Ken Kubicki. They each guided me along the way to make the correct decisions for our members. Next, those who previously held positions on the Board, Naomi Altschul, Paul Madjenovic, Dorothy Tallia, Mary Ann O’Brien, Anneliese McDermott, and the late Pio DeCaminada. Ed Tallia, Maura Vill, and Joan Cologero. They all contributed to the success of our club.

Now for the newly installed board members. Giovanna Mungioli, President and co-ordinator of our trips and outings. Giovanna has done a tremendous job organizing our trips and keeping track of everyone. Dealing with the venues and bus companies. I am sure that she will do the same as President. Maria Conway, First Vice President, has always stepped up when needed. She filled in as Secretary along with her duties as 1st VP. She schedules our in-house activities and coordinates the details of our Bar-B-Que and Pot Luck Luncheon. She decorates the club for the seasons. Fran Correa Mladjenovic, Second Vice President, has accepted the position of writing and distributing the monthly newsletter. She has taken it to a higher standard with her computer skills. She is doing a fantastic job. She is also taking care of the birthday list and has been helping with membership. Eileen Marelic, Secretary, has been taking our minutes this year and keeping track of what happens at our meetings. Carolina Topolewski, has been Treasurer this past year and has updated our way of processing payments and deposits. She keeps track of all our money with the bank and the borough. Lucy Ragasa, House Manager, has handled the kitchen and food events. She makes sure that we have tasty refreshments at our meetings and cleans up the kitchen when done. Shiranee DeThabrew, Assistant House Manager, has been assisting Lucy with the refreshments and kitchen. Liz Gioffre, Exercise and fitness manager, has given our club weekly chair yoga classes. New for the coming year, Martin Geiger, Publicity and Membership. Marty will be advertising our activities and building our membership. I want to thank all these people who assisted me in making our club operate smoothly.

I will still be in the background, as a source of historic information. I will be taking pictures and putting them on the page, Englewood Cliffs Senior Citizens. You will be seeing me at our events and meetings. Wishing all a wonderful Holiday Season and a Happy New Year.

Mary O’Shea

Copyright (C) 2026* *Englewood Cliffs Seniors Club*. All rights reserved.

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