07/23/2024
With heavy hearts, we announce the passing of our esteemed former President, Joe Mellender. His dedication and service to our fire department and community were unparalleled. His unique commitment to the goals of the fire company, his desire to keep our department moving forward, and his spirit of teamwork and cooperation have fostered a sense of unity and belonging among us. He was one of the most unassuming and humble people, always ready to share a story from his decades of rich experiences with the fire service.
As our previous President, he led the organization with integrity, compassion, and determination. His unwavering commitment to the safety and welfare of our community earned him the respect and admiration of his peers. His ability to inspire and motivate others was instrumental in the continued success of our fire department. We are deeply grateful for his service and the impact he has made on our community.
Joe’s extensive background in fire service includes volunteering at age 17 while still attending high school. He then transitioned to a navy life before rejoining the ranks of the fire service in Alexandria. There, he developed from a lieutenant to a captain.
In 1978, Joe was hired as a shift commander (later renamed to our current Battalion Chief). He remained in that role until his retirement in 1991. He rejoined the FVFD in 1993 and has been one of the most instrumental and under-celebrated members ever since.
While this is his biography, it says little of why he was so beloved. When reading about the fire service, the following ten pillars describe what we strive for.
• Knows when to speak up boldly, yet can decipher when to listen with humility.
• Puts selfish pride aside for the betterment of the Brotherhood & Sisterhood.
• Says: WE instead of ME.
• Finds value in other people’s perspectives, even if they differ from ours.
• Expects, gives, and receives accountability.
• Chooses to focus on the positive instead of the negative.
• Being honest about our weaknesses.
• Knows that growth comes from challenges and failures, yet be comfortable with being uncomfortable.
• Requires action, not idle talk.
• Freely gives encouragement and gratitude.
These pillars equally apply to Joe, and his attitudes shared with the organization and with the volunteer membership. His legacy of leadership, bravery, and selflessness will always inspire us. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family and loved ones during this difficult time. Rest in peace, Joe… You will be greatly missed.
