09/01/2026
[September 1] in 1789, George Washington received the news of his mother's passing. Mary Ball Washington, a woman of remarkable resilience and strength, had succumbed to breast cancer a week prior. At the time, President Washington was residing in New York City, where he was dining with two former generals of the Revolutionary War. The somber news arrived via a letter from his cousin, Burgess Ball, who provided a poignant account of Mary’s final days.
Washington ordered mourning cockades and ribbons for the presidential household and temporarily suspended his weekly levees or receptions. On September 13, President Washington wrote to his sister, seeking to comfort Betty: "Awful, and affecting as the death of a Parent is, there is consolation in knowing that Heaven has spared ours to an age, beyond which few attain, and favored her with the full enjoyment of her mental faculties, and as much bodily strength as usually falls to the lot of four score. Under these considerations and a hope that she is translated to a happier place, it is the duty of her relatives to yield due submission to the decrees of the Creator—When I was last at Fredericksburg, I took a final leave of my Mother, never expecting to see her more."
Image 1: Mary Ball Washington was buried at her own request at the rock near the Lewis mansion (Kenmore) where she often went to meditate.
Image 2: The Mary Washington Monument, dedicated on May 10, 1894, honors the mother of George Washington.