10/13/2026
Gorilla Gathering message for the week:
I'm going to give you all a little peek behind the curtain today. Most of the time, I have several quotes and ideas saved up in my phone for things to talk about for a Gorilla Gathering. But before any decision is made, I ask a few trusted friends if there is anything they feel we NEED to talk about for for students. Many times, we discuss a topic that I needed to hear MYSELF.
As a result of this process, we landed on a bit of a theme for the past few weeks without even meaning for that to happen. For at least 3 of the last 7 or so Gatherings, we have discussed how to proceed when things don't go your way. And as I asked around to my usual trusted people, it became clear that maybe we needed to discuss it again.
Tim Tebow said,
"You can't control the storm.
You can control your response to it.
The bad news, the setback, the thing that blindsides you—none of that was ever up to you.
What you do next is."
The things that happen TO us are never under our control. We can prepare, make a plan, and hope, but life still happens. We can't control it.
But we can control how we respond. We can look for the bad, for the things we lack, for an excuse, or for how we failed. Or we can look for the good, the great things that happen to us, or the blessings we have. We can respond negatively. Or we can respond in a positive way.
Responding in a positive way is the only healthy option. It gives us a brighter outlook. It provides us with positive solutions. And most of all, it helps us move forward with some hope.
As we go out to live life this week, let's remember that even when bad things happen, it's up to us how we respond. No one else gets to decide how we react to something. Just US!
Challenge for the week:
Respond well to bad things happening.
Every day is a great day to be a Gorilla!
Have a positive week!