01/02/2026
It is with deep regret that the Officers and Members of Relief Hose Co No 3 announce the passing of 60-year member, Ex Chief Anthony “Tony” Defeciani. Tony served the firehouse and community in many ways including as company Chaplain. In this role Tony’s compassion for others shone.
Tony was known for his unwavering dedication, often seen hurrying down the block toward the firehouse, determined that no alarm would go unanswered. His commitment was as constant as his presence.
A master carpenter by trade, Tony quite literally shaped the firehouse itself, building and rebuilding its walls over the years—leaving his craftsmanship, care, and spirit within them. His legacy lives on in the firehouse he loved and the community he faithfully served.
The company will be holding firematic services at Holt Funeral Home on New Main Street, Haverstraw, on Tuesday January 6th at 6:30pm. His funeral mass and service will be held at St. Peter’s and St. Mary’s Church on Broadway in Haverstraw on Wednesday January 7th at 10AM with burial immediately following.
The order of the day will be full dress uniform.
Rest Easy Tony, we will take it from here.