05/19/2026
When violence targets what we hold sacred, whether our faith, culture, identity, community, or personal values, it can leave many of us feeling fearful, angry, heartbroken, or spiritually exhausted. Here in Hawaiʻi, where community, ʻohana, and connection run deep, these events can impact us far beyond the headlines.
Please remember: your pain is valid, your safety matters, and you do not have to carry this alone. Healing does not mean pretending everything is okay. Sometimes healing simply means taking the next breath, reaching out to someone you trust, or allowing yourself space to grieve. Tiny acts of survival count. Humans keep expecting themselves to process trauma and still function like perfectly calibrated office printers. Deeply unrealistic species.
If recent events are affecting your mental health:
• Limit repeated exposure to violent media coverage
• Stay connected to safe, supportive people
• Spend time grounding yourself through culture, spirituality, nature, prayer, meditation, music, or community
• Check in on kūpuna, keiki, and loved ones who may be struggling silently
• Seek support early. You do not need to “earn” help by reaching a breaking point
📍 Hawaiʻi & Local Resources:
• Hawaiʻi CARES / 988 Crisis Support: Call or Text 988
• Hawaiʻi CARES Access Line: (808) 832-3100
• Mental Health America of Hawaiʻi: (808) 521-1846
• Crisis Text Line: Text ALOHA to 741741
• Child & Adolescent Mental Health Division: (808) 733-9333
• The Trevor Project (LGBTQ+ Youth): 1-866-488-7386 or text START to 678678
• SAMHSA National Helpline: 1-800-662-4357
Compassion, grief, fear, and anger are human responses to human tragedy. Hold tightly to the people and values that remind you who you are. Even in painful times, aloha, connection, and community still matter.