For those that do not know, my Dad, LT Eric Brice was a US Navy F4 pilot who was killed on 04 June 1968 after a bombing mission over North Vietnam. Earlier this year I attended an Annual Government Briefing (AGB) with the Defense POW MIA Accounting Agency (DPAA) where families of those still missing or unaccounted for are provided a great deal of information about current searches/investigations a
nd the techniques utilized for identifying the items when found. During this time Next of Kin family members also have the opportunity to sit down one on one with their Case Analyst to discuss any new information or updates regarding our loved ones. For me the discussion was about my Dad’s case, REFNO 1201. After a day filled with meetings and discussions my wife and I took a walk to visit The Wall along with several other memorials and historical landmarks in the area. I was amazed and shocked to see that scooters were allowed along the walking paths within the war memorials. I am in no way anti scooter but I do believe everything has a time and a place. For me scooters along these areas should not be permitted. I personally believe it takes away from the solemness and reverence the memorial warrants and is distracting to those paying their respects to a loved one, friend, or fallen hero that they served with. As I visited a number of the memorials it seemed as though these have become more like checklist items vs people taking a moment to soak in why they were built. Rather than get angry I saw this as the perfect educational opportunity, an opportunity to find a way to remind the public about why places like The Wall exist and why it is our duty to show reverence when visiting them. The original mission of A Step to Remember was for me to walk 58,281 steps, a step for each name engraved into the black granite of The Wall plus an additional 1,573 steps to show that our Missing will not be forgotten. 17 years of losses our nation, their families, and their friends suffered. I will be wearing a 17-pound weighted vested during the walk to be symbolic of the weight this war bore on our nation. The ultimate sacrifice these men and women made is why we say their names, why we tell their stories, and why we should never forget. And for some, like me, it why we never give up hope.