05/30/2023
When we think about Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs, it will be impossible to achieve the middle and higher tier needs if the baseline needs (food, shelter, clothing, emotional support) are not being met. Often times, kids are expected to behave appropriately at all times, and it is impractical to expect those desired behaviors when their baseline needs are not being met. ‼️
For example, kids who worry about their next meal might not have their homework done or perhaps they have issues with taking food. Kids who are falling asleep at school might be having housing or safety issues that prevent them from sleeping at night. It's not that they don't care about their academics or that they are lazy. But, these kids likely cannot excel in their current environments. When you change the environment, the child begins to change. They become less defensive and reactive when they can believe that their needs are being met. Kids should be able to be kids, but a lot of kids need support. If you are interested in becoming a foster parent, please ask us how to get started.