10/09/2025
When someone you care about is in an abusive relationship, it’s hard to know what to do. 💜
Maybe this sounds familiar:
A friend, family member, or coworker tells you they’re unhappy in their relationship. As they talk, you start to hear red flags: controlling behavior, constant jealousy, name calling, financial control, or even physical harm. They describe feeling like they’re walking on eggshells, afraid to do or say the wrong thing.
Your first instinct is to help. You want to fix it. You urge them to leave.
But then a week later, they say everything’s fine. Their partner did something “sweet.” And you’re left wondering what to do next.
💭 Here’s what’s important to remember:
Leaving an abusive relationship is complicated and dangerous. Survivors may stay for safety, love, fear, finances, or because they’re being manipulated and controlled. What they need most is your steady support, not judgment.
💜 You can help by:
Listening without pressure or blame
Letting them know you care and believe them
Offering resources like Voices of Hope & Friendship Home of Lincoln if they need immediate safety
📞 24/7 Voices of Hope Crisis Line: 402-475-7273
🏠 Friendship Home: 402-437-9302
Your compassion could be the lifeline that helps them find safety when they’re ready. 💜