03/20/2022
100 years ago AT THIS VERY MOMENT, Anderson and Eudie Mills, namesakes of The Mills-Davis House, were having an "open house" to celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary. From 2pm to 5pm they welcomed friends into their home at 523 E. 6th St. According to this 1922 article marking the occasion, only five of the original wedding attendees were still alive to come join them for cake. At the time, Anderson was 80 and Eudie was 74. They were described as "enjoying good health and still young in spirits....[living] alone in their picturesque old home." When asked for advice, Judge Mills hailed the virtues of "Old-fashioned girls." An excerpt from the article: "Comparing the women of the CIvil War days with the modern woman, Judge Mills is not altogether flattering to the latter. He maintains that the old-fashioned girl was superior in many ways. She was more devoted to her home, she was more demure and modest. She was more loyal to her husband and less given to frivolous ways. There was less family bickering in those days, he declares. Divorce was extremely rare. Once a couple joined hands in marraige, they stuck' for better or worse. 'Nowadays if a man has money, his wife will spend all she can, and if he hasn't any money she will leave him,' he said. The judge is a close observer of what goes on today and he shakes his head doubtfully when he reflects on the ways of the modern girl. She is flirtatious and seems to encourage undue familiarity on the part of men. Fifty years ago, he said, there was not a man who would not fight for the honor of a woman. They would probably do the same thing today if it were not for the present-day attitude of the woman. If men respect her less, it is her own fault, he declares. Judge Mills' advice to young married coupkes is for the wife to be thrift and center her interests on her home, working with her husband and instead of against him, as so many young wives seem bound to do. The wise course for the husband is to let his wife run the affairs of the home, and for him to stay at home nights and treat her as a sweetheart, showing her the same little courtesies and attentions as during the courting days." To read the amusing tale of how they met, you can see the full 1922 article in the comments. Happy 150 years to Anderson and Eudie!