10/26/2022
I thought you might be interested in this parenting advice column that is in today's Washington Post. The author gives good parenting advice to anyone who is trying to co-parent children during or after a divorce or separation. First, show some empathy for the kids and the situation they have been placed in as a result of the separation. Most importantly though, she advises that you do not involve the kids in the custody dispute between the parents. Too often I see parents who think they are going to "win" in court by having the kids choose them over the other parent. Most likely, your child loves both parents and wants to spend quality time with each.
If you are thinking about seeking a change to your current custody orders, there are several changes in circumstances that a court in New Hampshire will consider in deciding if a modification is in the child's/children's best interest. For example, in the case from the attached article, this father would probably argue that a modification to increase his parenting time is in the kids' best interest because of their young ages at the time of the original parenting plan.
If you are considering a modification to you parenting plan, please reach out to our office at (603) 883-0797 to schedule a free consultation. We would be happy to speak with you regarding the potential issues in your case.
How much do children get to decide a custody arrangement? How much can we talk to them about their hurtful complaints and their mother's influence?