08/31/2026
This morning, I spoke at NextGen Under 30 Oklahoma’s Day at the Capitol. Below are my remarks.
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This is now my eighth year of serving in the State House. It’s rather hard to believe that instead of a rising star, I’m now an elder statesman. And for the record, no longer eligible to be recognized like each of you for NextGen Under 30.
Over the years, I’ve learned to step out of my comfort zone.
Like the fact that I signed up for the FULL OKC Memorial Marathon next spring.
Having never ran a full marathon, this is going to be very interesting.
When it comes to leadership, you shouldn’t compare your Mile 3 with someone else’s Mile 20.
After all, comparison is the thief of joy.
As young professionals, we see this all the time.
Obviously, we each have our individual stories. It’s always fascinated me that when we meet someone for the first time, we ask about their name and where they work. And even our biographies have more space dedicated to mundane job-related responsibilities, even though I find what someone does outside of work the most interesting.
Don’t let your job become your entire identity.
There is no title nor amount of power worth sacrificing your family and friendships.
As each of you continue on your marathon training, whether it’s literal or metaphorical, enjoy the journey.
There will be Mile 3 days, and there will be Mile 20 days.
There will be moments when you feel like you’re falling behind and moments when you realize just how far you’ve come.
So don’t worry so much about the pace of the person running next to you. Find your pace. And enjoy the people you meet along the way.
Because at the end of the race, I don’t think any of us will care nearly as much about our titles or our accomplishments as we will about the people who were there with us.
Congratulations to each of you on being recognized for NextGen Under 30.
I’m excited to see where your next mile takes you.